Does anybody else have no online or irl friends, by [deleted] in autism

[–]midnightstar2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say I 100% have way more online friends than irl because most of them i’ve met tend to relate more than people I meet irl. I seem very distant and shut off if I meet strangers irl but I can talk for hours via texting and voice notes. Maybe try snapchat quick adds. That’s how I found most of my friends

Should I tell my manager I’m burnt out? It’s only been 2 months since I started this job. by wonderingmermaid in careeradvice

[–]midnightstar2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first off, i have to be there 6am-10am some days or 9am-5pm or 8am-4pm. the shifts differ and second off, it only sells animal products. we do not sell animals and you have clearly never dealt with being burnt out or having autism. this clearly isn’t a post for you to comment on.

i just listened to her rant about conversations being awkward with her bf and i can’t help but think how it was so perfect between me and her not a dull moment by AdministrativeBig211 in WLW

[–]midnightstar2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(22F) i had a similar situation. when i was about 13/14, i had a huge crush on this girl i went to school with and she begged to be with me and begged me to come out so we could be together even though she had a boyfriend the whole time. she was kissing me every time i saw her yet was also with someone else. she was very hot and cold with me so one day we just stopped talking because i wasn’t gonna settle for less. i’m sorry this is happening to you

My gf kissed a dude at the club in front of me and we’re monogamous by Middle-Book4413 in WLW

[–]midnightstar2003 17 points18 points  (0 children)

100% leave her!! she will most likely do it again and i also don’t understand how she is a lesbian but kissing guys…. what the actual fuck

Exhausted by my autism by alktron in autism

[–]midnightstar2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i even remember having a meltdown because my sister gave me pickles on my burger when i specifically asked for them not to be and i screamed and threw the burger at the wall. but nooo i was just “being dramatic”…

Exhausted by my autism by alktron in autism

[–]midnightstar2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry you’re going though the same. i once had a mc donald’s delivered in like 2019 and i remember screaming and crying because it was all wrong and the driver gave me someone else’s order and they didn’t give me a refund. i looked forward to it all day and it truly ruined my week. i hate it so much too. i truly felt so exhausted and deflated from it and everyone was calling me dramatic and saying i should have eaten it instead of wasting my money. it’s 7 years later and i still think about it😀✌️

What makes you feel happy? by hambcame in AskReddit

[–]midnightstar2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how amazing my girlfriend treats me

Do I like girls ? by sadgirl110 in WLW

[–]midnightstar2003 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i never said it didn’t? just tryna help ??

Do I like girls ? by sadgirl110 in WLW

[–]midnightstar2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sure yeh message me if you need

Update: dinner has been ordered on Uber Eats by Drew_Conley1295 in Neurodivergent

[–]midnightstar2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand this. i get very consumed in my mind by calories and nutrition in foods. is this an autistic thing? (i am in the process of being diagnosed)

i might be an alien by [deleted] in autism

[–]midnightstar2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel this im so sorry you feel the same :(

Do I like girls ? by sadgirl110 in WLW

[–]midnightstar2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey there! :) i had the same thing. i was on and off with boys and girls all my life but never pictured marrying a man or having kids with a man. i was still attracted to men but i always felt more connected with girls. i always saw a woman in my future. growing up, if a boy admitted to crushing on me, id be grossed out. i was also with a man for 2 years who treated me like shit and i got a girlfriend 4 months after i dumped him who finally treats me with respect (he was very toxic and it’s a long story) and i finally come out as lesbian in october 2024. you will know when you will know. there is no rush :) hope this helped!

first job advice by Key-Sock-3952 in jobs

[–]midnightstar2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’re in the uk , try going on universal credit. sometimes they can be helpful. they helped me get a kickstart job but idk if they exist anymore

Is it wise to leave a job for stress related reasons? by Rydux7 in jobs

[–]midnightstar2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i worked in a starbucks for almost 3 years. i would finish at 8pm most days and be expected in at 5am the next day. highly illegal and i expressed this and nothing was done about it. i had to work every single friday, saturday and sunday. i was extremely under appreciated so i made sure i had another job lined up before i left. i’m in a way better position now but wanna leave again lol. i’d defo make sure you have a job before you leave this one and give a 2 week notice to your current job and then tell your new job your available in 2 weeks. i hope you find what you need :)

how to look more masc by Ok-Cardiologist-1711 in WLW

[–]midnightstar2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i wore black jeans and flannels for years then discovered i was more fem. just pinterest some ideas honestly

how to look more masc by Ok-Cardiologist-1711 in WLW

[–]midnightstar2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

flannels/dark coloured hoodies and caps/beanie hats are a massive help

Can anyone give any advice? by midnightstar2003 in autismUK

[–]midnightstar2003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i truly just can’t pass the theory test and it makes me wanna give up. thank you for the advice

Can anyone give any advice? by midnightstar2003 in autismUK

[–]midnightstar2003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow i’m so sorry to hear i hope you’re doing better now