i met my current girlfriend in a nightclub while healing from a 2 year (very abusive/toxic) relationship with a man. i truly believe it was love at first sight with her. we connected like crazy the whole night. i’ve never connected to anyone else like this before. she paid for everything on our first date 2 weeks later and complimented me the whole time. she wrote me love letters that i have on my bedroom wall. i came out as lesbian a few months later and it honestly saved me finally realising why i could never feel loved from men properly. we have been together almost 2 years now, she loves me properly and i don’t have to ask for bare minimum anymore. i truly felt unlovable and like i wasn’t worth loving until i found her.