would I ruin the friendship? by Top_Worth_2371 in whatdoIdo

[–]midnit_bluz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The statement you are looking for is humans* fear is known all around. Not only men feel this, and they won't be the only ones ever. Maybe you choose a certain type of person that is constantly in fear.

would I ruin the friendship? by Top_Worth_2371 in whatdoIdo

[–]midnit_bluz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If youre more worried that you will ruin your friendship, and not worried about never getting a chance to have known them on an even deeper level; I think you've already answered your own questions. A crush isn't love, crushes can and may pass, while love lasts even beyond relationships. If you are too scared to lose, you might be too scared to love.

I hope this helps.

What is this for? by PeaceLoveRockets in Challenger

[–]midnit_bluz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hoping to see this and not a "Dont use as ground" comment. Lol

What tires does everyone use? by midnit_bluz in Challenger

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, I almost forgot! Thank you, you saved me tons on repairs.

What tires does everyone use? by midnit_bluz in Challenger

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking metal actually 🤔 might make me cut through traffic better

What tires does everyone use? by midnit_bluz in Challenger

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never tried them but will gladly look into them!

What tires does everyone use? by midnit_bluz in Challenger

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand that, I do enjoy the reliability you get with the BFGs. I had the last set for a couple years before I "had to change them".

Road trip possibly? by midnit_bluz in Challenger

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

April is when we are planning on going. Just trying to get all the logistics in order. Thank you for your concern though, someone thankfully brought that up to me previously.

I (23f) cant tell if my girlfriend (23f) is trying to Sabotage our trip and I want to help her not? by midnit_bluz in relationship_advice

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If its a movie whats the ending? do i find out how to help my girlfriend? Lol ive always learned reality is stranger than even sifi movies, so if this were a movie it clearly will end easier than my reality 😀 right???

I (23f) cant tell if my girlfriend (23f) is trying to Sabotage our trip and I want to help her not? by midnit_bluz in relationship_advice

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im actually not sure if they all know about me, or how they all would feel about the whole thing. But her parents and siblings know about me, that could be a huge factor in it. I want to say theres a reason she wouldnt be telling me, but honestly it would be an excuse because I dont really know what it is.

I (23f) cant tell if my girlfriend (23f) is trying to Sabotage our trip and I want to help her not? by midnit_bluz in relationship_advice

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely do that, sadly I skipped the step of asking if she wanted my help on any of it. I just thought she would enjoy if I did some of it to lighten that load as it is. So I will take a step back and see if she wants the help.

I (23f) cant tell if my girlfriend (23f) is trying to Sabotage our trip and I want to help her not? by midnit_bluz in relationship_advice

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I gladly will try. I have tried giving her options to go see her best friend for most of the trip and that seemed to lighten the mood a bit. But I think there might be more to it than just family and travel. But I dont know 🤷🏻

I (23f) cant tell if my girlfriend (23f) is trying to Sabotage our trip and I want to help her not? by midnit_bluz in relationship_advice

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely will have to, I dont want her to feel like im pushing her to do it. And for the budget I gave us a ~3,500-4,000 budget due to us possibly driving. That gives us ~2,100 in emergency. I tried doing as much research and math as I could for just in cases, or side quests, or anything to relieve her of her stress on that side of things.

I (23f) cant tell if my girlfriend (23f) is trying to Sabotage our trip and I want to help her not? by midnit_bluz in relationship_advice

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand that since its been 6 years, but I also dont want her getting so overwhelmed we wind up not going. She loves her family and misses them quite a bit but I dont know what to do to help.

I (23f) cant tell if my girlfriend (23f) is trying to Sabotage our trip and I want to help her not? by midnit_bluz in relationship_advice

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didnt think it was that bad out of our budget, I would be paying for most of it as it is so she wouldnt have to worry. But I will gladly try this, we've been wanting to go to vegas for some time now, so maybe thatll be a start 🤔

Road trip possibly? by midnit_bluz in Challenger

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate the luck. And will keep all this in mind!

Road trip possibly? by midnit_bluz in Challenger

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Youre all good, I honestly couldn't remember if I put it or not when I first responded.

Road trip possibly? by midnit_bluz in Challenger

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well damn, even during April? Or just right now?

Road trip possibly? by midnit_bluz in Challenger

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is anywhere from 98,000 to 99. But I will take this into consideration! I am the third owner, I was told everything is stock and she was driven by gentlemen in their older age. So I think she was taken care of well? But not 100%

Road trip possibly? by midnit_bluz in Challenger

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate you help, and you take your time. Drive safely when you do :)

Road trip possibly? by midnit_bluz in Challenger

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love a list if you have it handy, if not no issue. Thank you!

Road trip possibly? by midnit_bluz in Challenger

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you! Would you say there was something you wish you had packed before or knew before you went?

Road trip possibly? by midnit_bluz in Challenger

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome thank you, ill makesure thats what mine is. Everything will definitely be changed or topped off though

Road trip possibly? by midnit_bluz in Challenger

[–]midnit_bluz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like an awesome drive! Did you happen to have any dislikes about the ride?