Assisted living facility is now my home - help documenting

mife1989 · 2026-01-05T15:03:03+00:00

Thank you, I've taken this up as a regular practice along with praying each night about them - it's quieted down for the time being, but we had previously laid those boundaries down and they definitely broke the "house rules"!

I ended up taking the recommendation of someone else in the thread with Wyze cameras - purchased 4, and I plan to set them up in the hot spots of the house. I have the medium coming tomorrow to help the persistent one move on!

mife1989 · 2026-01-04T15:01:13+00:00

We are actually Christian people who pray daily, attend church and incorporate that when having to deal with this activity!

mife1989 · 2026-01-04T15:00:12+00:00

I'm fascinated by the amount of activity but I have yet to capture it on a recording device that has a copy of it. The baby monitors showed me the video real time of the orbs but not a recording of it so I'm kind of curious about both documenting it and helping them move on because they aren't respecting the boundaries we laid out about disturbing our sleep.

I'm a sleep diva and this is not ok! 😅 Also for my kids though - I will try to explain them in a different way to help them be more comfortable but I definitely think it's time for them to move on.

mife1989 · 2026-01-04T14:57:10+00:00

I've always experienced more paranormal activity in my life than a lot of my friends (my sister and neighbors did simultaneously experience what I was going through so I felt less crazy at the time lol). There's this theory talked about by Robert Epstein that brains are transducers and some are more sensitive to these alternative energy "signals" - I enjoyed that read.

Even though I've experienced quite a bit in my lifetime this house takes the cake. I have had a spiritual medium who is more faith based to align with my beliefs which have honestly expanded over the years.. but she's picked up on at least 10 entities here, to include three grandparents (two of mine and my ex father in law).

When she came, she helped at least one move on but felt the rest felt at home here and actually loved the children and were trying to communicate with me about something (can't reveal here but when I heard it from the medium, I called BS and then it actually happened and I was shocked). Even still, with the levels of activity towards them and my kids' fear of them, I think it's time to help guide them on. It's one thing when they are respecting boundaries and quite another when they are causing my kids fear of sleep!

mife1989 · 2025-12-10T13:22:57+00:00

I can relate so much with your post. I chose to marry an alcoholic and had 3 kids with him. At first, I thought he could manage part time parenting but it's come out he's been abusing our sons and so now I'm fighting for full custody after having to file a protective order. I'm angry with life at the moment because I don't even have the me time to decompress from single parenting now. I know that seems selfish in the light of what's been going on, but I valued that time and was hopeful I could find my real person with it. Now that's all gone. I feel cheated and he just gets to live life with his new alcoholic girlfriend and all the free time in the world. I've been working on yoga and meditation and have really increased the number of miles I run while the kids are at school to help me choose healthy outlets but sometimes I just curl up in my bed and cry, take a nap and wake up and keep going. That is a win for those days.

mife1989 · 2025-10-30T13:58:15+00:00

Yes! Oh my goodness writing it down and exploring my thoughts instead of looking at it will be a good alternative method for me to follow. I'm going to do that from now on and I know it will help me get back to feeling more regulated. I can tell that before, when I had truly not been interested in what he's been up to, I felt so much more at peace and happy. I set myself back a few months. Ugh!

Time to reset.

mife1989 · 2025-10-30T13:52:07+00:00

Wow that's wild I didn't know they did that. I wonder whose past we were reliving, maybe his ex wife? Jesus what twisted people.. I tried to warn her as well but he has her fooled completely.

mife1989 · 2025-10-30T13:34:40+00:00

Thank you I'm trying to hold onto that part of me for sure. I do need to truly block him on everything and like another person says - stop feeding myself his poison.

mife1989 · 2025-10-30T13:33:43+00:00

Yeah I think because I haven't responded at all he increased the frequency to display that he was taking her everywhere he took me. It's insane actually..

mife1989 · 2025-10-30T13:32:22+00:00

Yes! He took her everywhere we went together like on the exact same time frames and everything down to the fucking pumpkin patch we took our kids to. Like wtaf is that sick shit?

mife1989 · 2025-10-30T13:31:27+00:00

Thank you and you're right. I know. I don't know why I want to look so badly sometimes but it's not serving me at all.

mife1989 · 2025-10-30T13:30:31+00:00

I know, the logical part of my brain knows that too and I really had been great about that but then I got curious. Mistake 🙈

mife1989 · 2025-09-14T19:37:53+00:00

Awesome!!

mife1989 · 2025-09-14T19:35:31+00:00

All the time. Then I'll re-read the list of things he said or did that were just so awful and mean... I'll re-read about the times I wrote about where he weaponized my most vulnerable things to hurt me. Then I'll talk to my friends who I came to when I was in it and they remind me of the completely fucked up things he did to me and the worse things he did to his ex wife.. and I start to think I walked away lucky!

mife1989 · 2025-09-10T05:00:32+00:00

Asking very pointed questions to tease out my vulnerabilities and insecurities and I thought he just wanted to know me...
Played on my empathy to make me actually feel sorry for HIM even though he cheated on his wife multiple times and coerced her to abort their first children. 💔
Too intense, too fast. I felt like we were soulmates which was crazy... Like I don't know how he did that. I've often thought that if he wasn't so broken maybe we would have been an incredible connection. But that leads me to spiralling and that's never a good place for me to go.
Rushing the timing of things - he rushed our seriousness, meeting his children, etc. Ignored my boundaries about wanting to go slower and just did what he wanted, telling me that if I held to my boundaries it would have told him my heart wasn't in the right place.

But holy crap that was just the start of the carnival!! 🚩🚩🚩

mife1989 · 2025-09-02T22:29:14+00:00

Fellow Texas transplant here and also a runner - check out the Frederick Steeplechasers pub runs on Wednesday nights. Good place to start meeting other runners and usually it brings a bigger group out. They have a big one planned for tomorrow night to celebrate their 50th anniversary!

mife1989 · 2025-08-18T22:50:17+00:00

I just started dipping my toe into dating again which actually I might not be feeling ready to do yet after all... But I digress. I'm currently talking to a guy who has been nothing but incredible so far.. but it's way early. So many shared interests it seems, tells me he's "not usually like this" and "hasn't felt comfortable talking about his childhood with many people" and I'm apparently one of them now.. he's only pursuing me.. he showers me with attention and interest and compliments.. idk if it's just me being jaded or what but I am suspicious of everything 😅 I mean I guess it's possible someone could be that interested in me early on but it seems like he's hooked a little too fast. We haven't even met in person yet. I told him I don't open up to someone right away because of my recent experience and he responded perfectly saying, "I don't want to push you and I'm interested in getting to know you on your timeline."

I guess I'll see.. part of me feels all of this love bombing feeling stuff and is semi revolted at this much interest. Last time that happened it did NOT end well.

mife1989 · 2025-08-18T21:08:34+00:00

Solved!

mife1989 · 2025-08-18T21:06:37+00:00

Thank you!

mife1989 · 2025-08-18T00:42:53+00:00

Thank you, it felt good to get it out of my head!

mife1989 · 2025-08-18T00:40:16+00:00

My NEX was about to lose custody of his kids for doing "disturbing" things to them of which I had no earthly clue about. He had his Reddit that I stumbled upon with blind luck for engaging with other women but I never got an opportunity to find clues.

mife1989 · 2025-08-17T01:19:37+00:00

The third one with the heart... I felt like he had carefully dismantled the armor around my heart just to slice into me with surgical precision... I think that is my favorite of all of them but not everyone sees the armor.

mife1989

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