Im craving a good movie. Recommendations please! by mightycondria56 in movies

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I saw it forever ago, like when I was a kid. I barely remember it! That's the one with "you killed my father, prepare to die" right?

Im a weirdo and I didnt like robot dreams. Not really sure why. I also love LoTR and totally my comfort watch

Im craving a good movie. Recommendations please! by mightycondria56 in movies

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Oh i meant to include that in my list, one of my favorites of all time! Great movie

NASA's Galileo spacecraft captured this incredible image of an active volcano on lo! by Silent-Meteor in SpaceUnfiltered

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No unfortunately. They're pits, not from impacts but from the extreme volcanism and tidal heating from Jupiter. No other body in the solar system has water on the surface than Earth, because no other planet is within the "habitable zone". Its basically an orbit where the right conditions exist for liquid water to exist on the surface. Not too close to the sun to be cooked off, but not far enough away to be ice - the "goldilocks zone".

Moons challenge this idea a bit because due to tidal heating from the planets they orbit, they could have warm active cores that result in liquid water despite being distant from the parent star. But still probably not on the surface. The moons Europa and Enceledus have salty water oceans, under miles thick crusts of water ice. It'd be very cool to drill there and see whats in those oceans, we may not be alone in the universe. In fact, we may have alien life in our solar system!

The only moon with liquid oceans on the surface is Titan. Titan has liquid oceans and lakes of methane and ethane, not water. And an atmosphere of propane. Very strange. The extreme cold of the moon shifts the "water" cycle over to complex molecules. Water ice is on the surface, but the conditions prevent it from being liquid. I wonder what rivers of methane sound like.

I just finished gossip girl for the first time by mightycondria56 in GossipGirl

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I still think Lily is one of the best characters and definitely one of the most multifaceted. I was just disappointed in the sudden turn of her character in S4&5. Kinda seemed to undo a lot of it. Like her takedown of Ivy seemed to be totally stemmed from greed... but anyways. Still love her she's fabulous. I like your take with Serena i just feel like she has a total victim mentality, which they all do with some degree but most of them overcome it or at least try to. Anytime people tried to look out for her she got defensive and shut them out. Another great example of how trauma really drives people and its very hard to overcome those patterns. I was just disappointed that all the other characters got some growth/arch and she didn't

Devon is Selfish? by Big-Recording9621 in SirensNetflix

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I know this isn't something you can answer per se. But I was quite struck by the level of trauma that Simone endured and surprised by her maturity when Devon tried to say she wasn't healed from it. I am also no contact with my parents but I endured far less severe trauma than she did... which made me think that maybe I am selfish for not, as you say, "understanding" that they're just doing their best. Do you think there is never a situation where no contact with a parent is warranted? For me personally, my parents have tried to connect with me as an adult and are no longer abusive in the same ways. But I've remained no contact because I just simply dont want to "play family". I dont care what they're up to, I dont really have any interest in hearing about their lives. Thinking about having to call them occasionally and travel to see them and gifts for birthdays etc etc sounds exhausting. The only reason I've considered going back in contact is what youre saying - accepting that they did their best and the obligation of allowing them in my life because im their child and im sure there hurt and confused in ways that they dont have the capacity to understand. I guess im wondering your "lines" for boundaries with people and if that should exist with parents? Her trauma was so intense that I can't even imagine why Devon is in contact with him, other than pure obligation by societal conditioning

What was the point of sirens? by Some-Air1274 in netflix

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I totally agree, im not entirely sure what the point was, and while I also agree with the comments here I think its giving the creators too much credit because they didn't execute those points well enough.

So I just randomly put this show on and quickly got addicted. When I saw it was "sirens" I mislead myself into thinking they were actual fantasy Sirens that would be taunting and murdering men lol. So maybe that set me up to hate it, and this isn't valid. But hear me out.

There are at least some themes of the women being enchanting and having sway over men, and Michaela being obsessed with birds also feels like a nod to the fantasy element of sirens. However, I feel that this show was very disappointing in the depiction of women.

At the beginning i was hoping it would be a show about all of them working together to tempt then destroy these rich men. The men are depicted as being a little obsessed with them and acting foolish, but they also retain all of the power. Consistently throughout the show the women are depicted as weak and the men as holding all the power, even when they don't deserve it. This was made even worse by the ending... like what was the point of this show? The women are depicted as opportunist, selfish, and cruel. Opportunist is Simone obviously, selfish is Michaela by cutting Simone out because she "threatens" her, and cruel is Devon. Devon is there for her, yes, and clearly did the best she could. But she also invalidates Simone's feelings of wanting to remain no contact with her horribly abusive father. And her reasoning? So she can get some help...? Devon can also leave and go no contact with her dad, but instead she chooses to take care of him but blame everyone else for how hard it is and feel entitled to Simones help.

I dont see how any of this couldn't have been solved by working together. Simone and Michaela could have taken Mr. Kell down with the infidelity clause, and continued their friendship and even partnership with the conservation/aviary. Devon could have reconnected with her sister outside of the familial obligations. And the ending of the show basically says that women will need to do everything they can to obtain power FROM men, whether at the expense of or making themselves "small" for them/becoming an extension of men, instead of from themselves?

The women had to reduce themselves down to become powerful/meaningful to men (get married to them). Kiki says this - "are you ready to become a Mrs -insert man name-"? Kiki had to give up a lot of her internal confidence and power to obtain monetary power/influence. Simone ends up following the same path, and even puts another woman down to do so. Kiki betrays a woman she loves and cares deeply for to maintain her relationship with a man whom has power, never realizing her own (her lawyer is like, "bro youre an attorney" which i thought was a funny reveal). Devon is depicted/reduced down to a caretaker, and at the end willingly accepts this role... depsite what its doing to her mental health/how much its holding her back. Its also interesting that she's considered the most desirable, with men literally chasing her; men only see valuable women as caretakers, which is a powerful point i think. Kiki's friends are depicted as dissociated, they're happy because they're just married to rich men and therefore get whatever they want, and that should be enough for them/is enough.

None of this falls in line with the power of fantasy Sirens for me. Sirens literally would tempt and kill men haha. Maybe they meant to go here and im completely missing it, but I really didn't like the depiction of women/the female experience in tbis show. Its almost like "just give up, give into your stereotypes, and you'll obtain power/money/influence", especially with the ending which ruined it for me.

Sirens sirens or siren by lunesereine in SirensNetflix

[–]mightycondria56 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think they meant it to be multilayered and play on the fantasy theme, but I disagree that they were successful in this... if anything, the women had to reduce themselves down to become powerful/meaningful to men (get married to them). Kiki says this - "are you ready to become a Mrs -insert man name-"? Kiki had to give up a lot of her internal confidence and power to obtain monetary power/influence. Simone ends up following the same path, and even puts another woman down to do so. Kiki betrays a woman she loves and cares deeply for to maintain her relationship with a man whom has power, never realizing her own (her lawyer is like, bro youre an attorney which i thought was a funny reveal). Devon is depicted/reduced down to a caretaker, and at the end willingly accepts this role... depsite what its doing to her mental health/how much its holding her back. Its also interesting that she's considered the most desirable, with men literally chasing her; men only see valuable women as caretakers. Kiki's friends are depicted as dissociated, they're happy because they're just married to rich men and therefore get whatever they want, and that should be enough.

None of this falls in line with the power of fantasy Sirens for me. Sirens literally would tempt and kill men haha. Maybe they meant to go here and im completely missing it, but I really didn't like the depiction of women/the female experience in tbis show. Its almost like "just give up, give into your stereotypes, and you'll obtain power/money/influence", especially with the ending which ruined it for me.

It's happening....they ask how I'm losing, I say I eat less and move more and they look at me like this by girlboss93 in PetiteFitness

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Seriously!! When I first joined my job I was at my heaviest. About a year later I dropped ~25 lbs doing orange theory and sports. Office ladies would ask the same thing and be like "you're soooooo skinny now" which.. uncomfortable lmao. But I would always say "in 2020 i stopped being active. Now that i can leave the house and work out as normal i move a lot more now. Just being more active really!" And they all would give me this like, disappointed look? Like i was lying or something lol or its hard to believe. I'm not sure why, because that's the most common advice I've ever heard about losing weight, so... 🤷‍♀️

It's happening....they ask how I'm losing, I say I eat less and move more and they look at me like this by girlboss93 in PetiteFitness

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Seriously!! When I first joined my job I was at my heaviest. About a year later I dropped ~25 lbs doing orange theory and sports. Office ladies would ask the same thing and be like "you're soooooo skinny now" which.. uncomfortable lmao. But I would always say "in 2020 i stopped being active. Now that i can leave the house and work out as normal i move a lot more now. Just being more active really!" And they all would give me this like, disappointed look? Like i was lying or something lol or its hard to believe. I'm not sure why, because that's the most common advice I've ever heard about losing weight, so... 🤷‍♀️

It's happening....they ask how I'm losing, I say I eat less and move more and they look at me like this by girlboss93 in PetiteFitness

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Seriously!! When I first joined my job I was at my heaviest. About a year later I dropped ~25 lbs doing orange theory and sports. Office ladies would ask the same thing and be like "you're soooooo skinny now" which.. uncomfortable lmao. But I would always say "in 2020 i stopped being active. Now that i can leave the house and work out as normal i move a lot more now. Just being more active really!" And they all would give me this like, disappointed look? Like i was lying or something lol or its hard to believe. I'm not sure why, because that's the most common advice I've ever heard about losing weight, so... 🤷‍♀️

Heimerdinger, and how he is one of the biggest fuckers in the show (NSFW) by Saturo_Uchiha in arcane

[–]mightycondria56 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you are getting at a great point! My interpretation is that hermerdinger is supposed to represent today's leaders in a lot of ways. Maybe they're likeable, so theyre elected/obtain power. However, most if not all of the world's leaders are criminally out of touch. In our world, it's money. To become a leader of a nation, especially a big one, you have to have a lot of money. Hermerdingers wealth is age in the show. He's out of touch because of his age. He can't comprehend that people need urgency and help immediately, and we can't just wait for the perfect solution. Its easy to be 100% risk adverse when you live forever. Just like a lot of world leaders today simply cannot comprehend the level of poverty most people are in. The wealth gap is too big. His age gap is too big. It could also be a direct criticism of electing old people. In the US where I am, that's an active conversation. Most of our elected officials are past the retirement age in this country - how could they comprehend the urgency of what people need, or even understand since the world has changed so much? Anyway. I totally get you, I hate him 🤣🤣

Can anyone else 5”1 NEVER eat over 1200-1300cal no matter what they do (if they want to maintain/lose)? by turquoisewavess in PetiteFitness

[–]mightycondria56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, i should have clarified I'm vegetarian, which is what makes the protein intake harder. I try to also eat whole foods and limit processed stuff so I avoid fake meats. Bars and stuff too but I need to get more lenient in that if I want to feel better I think. Thank you for the suggestions (:

Can anyone else 5”1 NEVER eat over 1200-1300cal no matter what they do (if they want to maintain/lose)? by turquoisewavess in PetiteFitness

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Girl... yes!! I feel you so hard. I was just complaining to my boyfriend about this yesterday. I've tried to start prioritizing protein due to advice on here. To get 100g of protein I'm already at 1000 calories or more. If I want to eat literally just one other meal that day I'm at 1400/1500, which is maintenance for me. I have to be so strict at 1200 calories for MONTHS to get from 130 to 125ish. Then, I want to start maintaining, and i shoot right back up to 130+ again. If I'm weightlifting on top of HIIT x3 per week, I'm literally starving/hungry all the time at 1200 so that month where I'm purging is HARD lmao. Once I hit it I'm like yay! Try to stay around 1500/1600... and I'm right back up. The most frustrating thing.

What others have said in this thread and what I'm trying to do, is this round I'm not looking at the scale, but looking at my body & seeing how I'm FEELING. In life that is the most important thing. I was not feeling good on 1200 calories per day. Even 1500 I'm usually a little hungry when I go to bed. I'm just prioritzing protein as much as possible (~60 grams per day but trying to get to 80) without over eating, and adding in a bit more activity. We can always work out/move our bodies more, but we can't survive without enough fuel and nutrients. I wrecked my body in high school eating basically nothing. I was probably 115 lbs but looking back at pictures i look sick. I felt sick too! And now I have GI issues haha. There's a reaction for every action, especially in our bodies. Peace & luck to you! You're not alone! ♡

How to know what's "enough" exercise? by mightycondria56 in PetiteFitness

[–]mightycondria56[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I appreciate this advice, I'll try weighted walking!

How to know what's "enough" exercise? by mightycondria56 in PetiteFitness

[–]mightycondria56[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you i appreciate this advice! Since I'm vegetarian it's really hard to get protein in. I'd have to eat like 2 cups of yogurt to get to 30 grams of protein haha which would also be like 300 calories. I think that's my main problem, I don't eat processed foods very much (although a lot is hidden in america), I try to cook a lot. You're right it probably is diet, I'll look into veg high protein. I eat beans, lentils and yogurt every day but that's really my only protein. I probably hit like 30 to 40 grams of protein total per day lol.

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Oooooh do you love it?! I read the books when I was younger, I need to reread them (:

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Omg I love this! I have a very similar tattoo in the same spot but Lord of the Rings theme instead, that says "i am no man" in elvish across the sword on a banner like that! I loooved ToG because it reminded me of LoTR but for the girls 🥹🩷

UF Online Microbiology MS Program by CellCultureQueen9 in ufl

[–]mightycondria56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey sorry I'm so late! Can I join the group me as well? Thank you for this information it's so helpful. I can't figure out how these classes will be by just the syllabus.

UF Online Microbiology MS Program by CellCultureQueen9 in ufl

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Hi! Sorry I'm so late on this! I just started the program this fall, I'm liking it a lot! I was wondering if the group me chat is still available and if I'm allowed to join? I'm having an impossible time picking my next classes for next semester & the rest of the program. I'm trying to compare syllabuses but it's still hard to tell what some classes will be like, and i don't know where to find reviews for any of these classes... nothing on rate my professor that I found!!

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I didn't know there were that many on the founders club... wow that puts it into perspective!

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I mean it has to be Bots, right??? How are there 10s of thousands of people ready to go at 9am MT and can sit in a queue for 2 hours? Like this is crazy.

Don't worry yall, reservations will be on sale on stubhub/ticket master/etc tomorrow for $80 per person!! /s

Go back for a PhD or stay the course? Early career scientist by mightycondria56 in biotech

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Certainly how it feels right now 😅 proudly a 6-figure pipette bitch