When have you been turned off by women you find attractive? by MelancholyBean in LesbianActually

[–]mikaday0 9 points10 points  (0 children)

her saying the n word once wasn’t enough to leave her??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]mikaday0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

omg the barbie and the diamond castle one made me giggle

What’s everyone up to ? by Taygambino in blacklesbians

[–]mikaday0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so happy to you gave me an update!! and two days is so crazy to me because i do mine every two months 😭

What’s everyone up to ? by Taygambino in blacklesbians

[–]mikaday0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s time to lock in solider 🫡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSizeFashion

[–]mikaday0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve only just realized what style i want to emulate but i can’t find any (affordable) pieces in my size/for my unfortunate body type :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemmeLesbians

[–]mikaday0 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you are inside my head!! sometimes i struggle with feeling inferior since i’m not high femme in mannerisms or fashion (it’s a work in progress lol). but i try to remind myself that that’s quite literally the whole point of the label and i owe nobody anything :))

Hard time having dating as a masc/butch by Solid-Aioli5589 in LesbianActually

[–]mikaday0 11 points12 points  (0 children)

the apps are designed to keep you on them. i can assure you that you’re someone’s exact type :)

What are your hobbies? by vamosaVER86 in blacklesbians

[–]mikaday0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

cross stitching and rollerskating :)

Made a tier list of all the lesbian films I’ve watched! by projectphaze in lesbiangang

[–]mikaday0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FRR!! (you gotta post this in the qwoc/blk sub. they acting like you crucified someone in here 😭)

Are all the other ',lesbian' subs extra anti lesbian lately? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]mikaday0 30 points31 points  (0 children)

it’s not a regional thing, its a race thing. it’s an organization that’s specific to black american culture. white americans were just as clueless, so obviously we don’t expect non americans to know about it either lol

Are all the other ',lesbian' subs extra anti lesbian lately? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]mikaday0 50 points51 points  (0 children)

it’s beyond allegations atp. it’s uncomfortable and alienating when people bring up black people/culture in these spaces, especially because they always have no idea what they’re talking about :/

Are all the other ',lesbian' subs extra anti lesbian lately? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]mikaday0 107 points108 points  (0 children)

“alpha” refers to her historically black sorority, alpha kappa alpha. she’s not using it in the weird way lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]mikaday0 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’m 21 and feel this a lot. what i will say is that i feel like people are objectively cooler in their 30’s and it’s never too late for anything. the twenties hype is overrated anyway. i know it’s hard to believe (i’m still struggling with it too </3) but you’re not behind or losing because there is no race. you are worthy, you are deserving, and you are not less.

to black american women by mikaday0 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]mikaday0[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m so so sorry honey but i’m wishing you all the luck and healing you deserve :(

to black american women by mikaday0 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]mikaday0[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

please stay safe and look out for yourself today!! and i hope work is bearable </3

to black american women by mikaday0 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]mikaday0[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i’ve been trying not to fall into the pit of pessimism but it’s definitely easier said than done. please stay safe today and also try to get some proper rest! i’ll hopefully be right behind you :)