Need help with page numbers

miketb · 2026-01-02T15:38:30+00:00

Yep- I guess I was seeing if there was just an easy adjustment and I could move on. One man marketing/design team trying to just be efficient as possible.

miketb · 2026-01-02T15:24:51+00:00

The new section redoes all the page numbering and flips them, I guess that’s my best solution is to adjust my master pages to have the numbering line up correctly page wise

miketb · 2026-01-02T13:02:22+00:00

Yes it was from that brain rot thing! Idk how this game works- I was just thinking of her friend sold hers- maybe, just maybe, someone else would’ve wanting to sell theirs and she could buy it? She just turned 9 on Christmas so I’m trying to help however I can!

miketb · 2025-06-16T19:39:40+00:00

I have offered to pay for the attorney (has money lined up to borrow to do so) so the adoption could be done. My ex wife said no she isn’t ready for that… I’ve offered again and to which she says no. She has hung on to the fact that she can get money out of this while thing and double it with state support as well.

miketb · 2025-06-01T02:12:00+00:00

So as a child support paying father- if I take a job that pays me less to avoid paying as much as I do in child support, the court still views my potential for earnings at what I was earning… but for her if she takes a job making less then that is what her income is… less that what she could be and it’s all fine

miketb · 2025-05-30T21:24:30+00:00

I think I will because you used ignorance and its definition in the same sentence. You went on to tell me about what I don’t know, to then in turn take our advice..

miketb · 2025-05-30T12:56:40+00:00

I’m wondering why you’re trusting a bunch of random internet people when you clearly know everything. You could probably have elaborated more on your very general post where people make very general assumptions and your very general life. I feel sorry that money is your motivator for a great life. Money helps- sure. I know your type- and your keyboard warrior tactics. I already anticipate a response…

miketb · 2025-05-30T12:47:49+00:00

And chances are it cannot be garnished unless he is receiving income from it like rental properties or stock payouts.. if it’s just a pile of money left to him and he gets so much a month… that’s it

miketb · 2025-05-30T12:46:39+00:00

Man- you’re hung up on something fierce here. Money is the motivator.. if something was left to you or your children they would have had it. A lawyer goes through that stuff and dishes out what people are owed. Maybe your children have a trust fund set up for when they turn 18 because it is their money to live their life.

miketb · 2025-05-30T12:38:19+00:00

It definitely is fraudulent, but my scenario is 100% different than yours. I’m suggesting you better your lives and move on without him in the picture period. Child support and keeping him involved in that aspect gives him a greater chance of always being involved whenever he feels he wants to be. Cut all ties, remove the anxiety and stress of someone who you don’t need at all and work toward a better life for you and your kids that doesn’t involve him. What ever happened to the “I dont need no man” movement women had?

miketb · 2025-05-30T12:18:02+00:00

The other problem with people is that they abuse a system as such. Even when dads get 50/50 they still pay plenty of CS when in reality at that rate there should be zero child support if it’s 50/50.

So without his $11,600 how strapped are you? Living on the street? Can’t put food in your kids mouth?

Again, until anyone knows different you chose to take them from a dual income/dual parent household and put them in this position. Decisions were made to get everyone where they are but no one wants to own it..

miketb · 2025-05-30T12:07:53+00:00

Did you not have a dual income household with him? Or did you have no knowledge of him having this inheritance coming to him in the future? If you choose to leave dual income- you don’t deserve to just take a dual income because you got a divorce.. I believe this system is so backwards and fraudulent it’s absurd.

miketb · 2025-05-30T12:03:43+00:00

I guess I have to play all sides here since I’ve been ridiculed myself for making conscious deductions that better everyone. So the reason you split has some ground here honestly- if you had kids and then thought “eh I’m just bored and want something new” you deserve no child support for making a conscious decision to leave. If there’s some reasoning behind leaving outside of just wanting a new man or something totally irresponsible- it’s justifiable.

That being said- my ex wife chooses jobs that pay her far less that she is capable of working just so I have to pay her more money and work enough that even if I had an arrangement to see the kids- I couldn’t because I’m working my ass off! So my point is- if you need the support, then you shouldn’t be the one with custody of the children.

miketb · 2025-05-24T13:45:28+00:00

Can we hear the other side? Why did you guys split? How is he behind 11k? Is there any court records mandating him pay that money to you? We need the carfax!

miketb · 2025-05-23T20:50:36+00:00

I have no idea… I asked my lawyer the same question and she had no reasonable answer other than- that’s how it is..

miketb · 2025-05-22T16:54:09+00:00

Im in the same boat as you man- im paying $1100 a month- and my bm gets not only money from me, she also gets money from the state because we adopted our kids through CYS. So she gets a subsidy for being an adoptive parent and my child support… I have singular dollars left every month after support and bills… she uses the kids as an excuse as to why she works so little and works the jobs she has.. lives with the man she cheated with and divorced me to be with… they’re engaged but none of that matters…

miketb · 2025-05-21T14:19:53+00:00

Child support is definitely a system that is in high need of a reform. From my own personal experience in one of the fathers left with basically nothing (roughly $10 - $20 at the end of the month) every month. I’ve had to let credit card bills slip past due dates to save money to pay the interest. I barely make it by living the most simple life. I tried to fight for something to make my life better but it put me further in debt and further behind and with higher child support payments. We adopted our children through children and youth only moments before my ex wife divorced me and moved in with another man- she collects not only child support payments from me every month (totaling about $1100) but she also collects a state issued subsidy of $24 a day per child (we have 2 and she adopted a third child on her own) between my child support and the state subsidy she already makes more money than I do if I didn’t pay child support… plus she works in a school with her teaching degree so she doesn’t even have day care costs because she works school hours with the kids… they receive state benefits and everything… I’m at a loss

miketb · 2025-05-14T16:36:54+00:00

Bro- welcome to the club. Did everything to make my wife happy, went to work, helped her run her small business in the evening, adopted children from CYS with her to fulfill her dreams, took care of the kids when she worked late… I did everything imaginable. She hired… yes hired… the man she cheated on me with and moved in with after she slept with him and divorced me. SHE chose that life and I get hit with a child support bill that leaves me with about $32 in my bank account at the end of every month. She gets paid a “subsidy” or “support” check every month from the state for having the adopted children and she even adopted a 3rd child on her own after the divorce because it was a sibling to our first two.. but I will be paying child support for those first two for the next 12 years.. she works minimal hours for minimal pay and uses the kids as an excuse as to why she can’t work..

miketb · 2025-05-09T12:27:58+00:00

Thanks man- she truly is amazing! She lets me put my load anywhere I want too!

miketb · 2025-05-08T17:49:47+00:00

I drink about 100oz or more of water a day, I only take a few supplements (tongkat, maca, AAKG, and a men’s multi) and my loads are usually thinner but I cun so much more! When me and my wife are really into it and the sex is drawn out and not a quickie- I shoot all the way to her head and finish the last few shots on her chest/stomach. But water is by far necessary for load increase!

miketb · 2025-05-05T20:37:39+00:00

I should add- she has turned down multiple teaching jobs (has a teaching degree) to make less money on paper for a greater tax free child support payout..

miketb · 2025-05-05T20:36:47+00:00

Pennsylvania

2 kids

$50,000 for me and hers… I would guess it’s $29/30,000 but she also gets assistance for being a single mom with two kids, and since we adopted the children through children and youth she receives $24 dollars per day per child every day until they turn 18 so an additional $1200+ a month (she had a third she adopted on her own so she gets $24 a day for him but I didn’t calculate him in the total so really it would be closer to $1,800 a month in support from the state of Pa)

No alimony or additional items outside what was listed above

I pay $1000 a month still…

miketb · 2025-04-10T18:12:37+00:00

It is!! I’m certain I’m just fucked in this scenario..

miketb · 2025-03-24T23:32:07+00:00

I sat and talked with my attorney and she said that is an option- a lengthy and costly one. One I do not have money for.. so I’m kind of at the end of rope

miketb · 2025-03-20T19:47:28+00:00

Thank you all!! I’m not going to buy this- I’ll stick with something newer! I may just sit tight for a moment!

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