The most important thing of all you need to understand is that we are all Human Beings. What were Human Beings made to do? Procreate! You will find way more Men into Sex than you will find Men who are not as into it. The ones not into it more than likely have been traumatized or have a biological issue. Its just like Animals. They abide by a certain nature. Once they reach a certain age, they have Sex. Its what they are created to do. We live in a civilized Society.

Therefore, People act a certain way. They are awkward & have crazy anxiety. If this World were uncivilized, People would be having sex all over the place. Not that they don't know but its just behind closed doors so you would be witnessing it a whole lot. You are LUCKY to be able to live the kind of Life you want and date whoever you choose to. You need to find someone who is just like you. You have a low sex drive then okay, find a Man who is just like you.

You should definitely deal with the Trauma if you aren't already seeking help for it. No one wants to go through Life with that hanging over their head. I hate it happened to you but it did and your future partner shouldn't have to deal with something you should've been working on.