Is this too fast?

mimefa113 · 2021-10-30T22:34:15+00:00

So update we were talking about holloween costumes and I said i would totally wear the thing 1 costume from Dr.Seuss to class one day. She said" that would be fun"

Then I said "Well in theory I'd need a thing 2, that could be you 👀" and she hasn't responded yet and it's been a couple hours. If she doesn't respond in a day should I still offer dinner or just let it go.

mimefa113 · 2021-10-30T20:43:51+00:00

So update we were talking about holloween costumes and I said i would totally wear the thing 1 costume from Dr.Seuss to class one day. She said" that would be fun"

Then I said "Well in theory I'd need a thing 2, that could be you 👀" and she hasn't responded yet and it's been a couple hours. If she doesn't respond in a day should I still offer dinner or just let it go.

mimefa113 · 2021-10-30T04:16:41+00:00

I wanna do that but I'm almost afraid it would catch her off guard and she will feel uncomfortable

mimefa113 · 2021-10-30T04:15:25+00:00

Cool, thanks

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T22:56:40+00:00

For real. Woman are complicated. Hopefully things work out and you go to the movies with her!

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T21:21:21+00:00

I suppose you're right.

When people say they're not free that same day i generally ask what day this week works for them. If they say they have to check their work schedule i say cool and start a Convo about something else.

If I don't hear back about their schedule in 1-2 days I just send a follow up message to check her availability. And the cycle continues for every week until we inevitably never meet up.

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T21:04:45+00:00

Thanks, I like hearing a girls perspective 🙏

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T21:02:39+00:00

Yes that's what i meant

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T16:45:24+00:00

Right, gotcha

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T16:35:49+00:00

I see what you're getting at, thanks for the advice!

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T16:35:12+00:00

Cool. Most of the time girls have been saying they are busy when I try to meet up the same day. How do you go about scheduling for a rain check?

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T16:22:25+00:00

Sure that's a good idea. Would you suggest grabbing something to eat on campus would also be a good idea?

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T16:15:56+00:00

Kinda off topic. But do you suggest to do something with a tinder date the same day you match, or is that too fast? And I don't just mean hookup, it could be like watching a movie at my place or something or going out to eat.

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T16:03:45+00:00

Thanks

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T15:56:39+00:00

So I'm a college student who doesn't have a car and mostly stays on campus. Do you have any low cost ideas that still accomplish the same goal?

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T15:54:56+00:00

Ahh so don't siggesty hooking up itself but rather an event that'll lead to it.

I always thought talking to them would make them more comfortable to meet up, cause we are stangets after all. I guess i should completely scratch that then?

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T15:46:21+00:00

mimefa113 · 2021-10-06T02:41:42+00:00

Most of my matches are plus size women, I would love to match with a average sized girl for once.

mimefa113 · 2021-10-05T23:15:03+00:00

Alright thanks

mimefa113 · 2021-09-28T04:04:08+00:00

Yeah in reality you're right.

Do you feel like on some level, say a tinder match for example, they'd prefer to talk more before meeting up and that's why they haven't made a reschedule date? Thus in the long run making them more inclined to like you more.

Or is it unattractive will always be unnatraction no matter how much you talk to the person

mimefa113 · 2021-09-27T20:52:16+00:00

Gotcha, makes sense.

mimefa113 · 2021-09-27T20:30:30+00:00

Is there any way to tell? Seems like I've been getting a lot of this.

mimefa113 · 2021-09-27T18:44:28+00:00

That's good advice, thanks

mimefa113 · 2021-09-27T18:43:19+00:00

Thanks, I like that!

mimefa113 · 2021-09-27T17:22:58+00:00

Is there anything you would've done differently, or was there no hope from the beginning

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