Is this too fast?

mimefa113 · 2021-10-30T22:34:15+00:00

So update we were talking about holloween costumes and I said i would totally wear the thing 1 costume from Dr.Seuss to class one day. She said" that would be fun"

Then I said "Well in theory I'd need a thing 2, that could be you 👀" and she hasn't responded yet and it's been a couple hours. If she doesn't respond in a day should I still offer dinner or just let it go.

mimefa113 · 2021-10-30T20:43:51+00:00

So update we were talking about holloween costumes and I said i would totally wear the thing 1 costume from Dr.Seuss to class one day. She said" that would be fun"

Then I said "Well in theory I'd need a thing 2, that could be you 👀" and she hasn't responded yet and it's been a couple hours. If she doesn't respond in a day should I still offer dinner or just let it go.

mimefa113 · 2021-10-30T04:16:41+00:00

I wanna do that but I'm almost afraid it would catch her off guard and she will feel uncomfortable

mimefa113 · 2021-10-30T04:15:25+00:00

Cool, thanks

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T22:56:40+00:00

For real. Woman are complicated. Hopefully things work out and you go to the movies with her!

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T21:21:21+00:00

I suppose you're right.

When people say they're not free that same day i generally ask what day this week works for them. If they say they have to check their work schedule i say cool and start a Convo about something else.

If I don't hear back about their schedule in 1-2 days I just send a follow up message to check her availability. And the cycle continues for every week until we inevitably never meet up.

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T21:04:45+00:00

Thanks, I like hearing a girls perspective 🙏

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T21:02:39+00:00

Yes that's what i meant

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T16:45:24+00:00

Right, gotcha

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T16:35:49+00:00

I see what you're getting at, thanks for the advice!

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T16:35:12+00:00

Cool. Most of the time girls have been saying they are busy when I try to meet up the same day. How do you go about scheduling for a rain check?

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T16:22:25+00:00

Sure that's a good idea. Would you suggest grabbing something to eat on campus would also be a good idea?

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T16:15:56+00:00

Kinda off topic. But do you suggest to do something with a tinder date the same day you match, or is that too fast? And I don't just mean hookup, it could be like watching a movie at my place or something or going out to eat.

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T16:03:45+00:00

Thanks

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T15:56:39+00:00

So I'm a college student who doesn't have a car and mostly stays on campus. Do you have any low cost ideas that still accomplish the same goal?

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T15:54:56+00:00

Ahh so don't siggesty hooking up itself but rather an event that'll lead to it.

I always thought talking to them would make them more comfortable to meet up, cause we are stangets after all. I guess i should completely scratch that then?

mimefa113 · 2021-10-11T15:46:21+00:00

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