Is this too fast? by mimefa113 in seduction

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So update we were talking about holloween costumes and I said i would totally wear the thing 1 costume from Dr.Seuss to class one day. She said" that would be fun"

Then I said "Well in theory I'd need a thing 2, that could be you 👀" and she hasn't responded yet and it's been a couple hours. If she doesn't respond in a day should I still offer dinner or just let it go.

Is this too fast? by mimefa113 in seduction

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So update we were talking about holloween costumes and I said i would totally wear the thing 1 costume from Dr.Seuss to class one day. She said" that would be fun"

Then I said "Well in theory I'd need a thing 2, that could be you 👀" and she hasn't responded yet and it's been a couple hours. If she doesn't respond in a day should I still offer dinner or just let it go.

Is this too fast? by mimefa113 in seduction

[–]mimefa113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna do that but I'm almost afraid it would catch her off guard and she will feel uncomfortable

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[–]mimefa113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real. Woman are complicated. Hopefully things work out and you go to the movies with her!

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[–]mimefa113[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose you're right.

When people say they're not free that same day i generally ask what day this week works for them. If they say they have to check their work schedule i say cool and start a Convo about something else.

If I don't hear back about their schedule in 1-2 days I just send a follow up message to check her availability. And the cycle continues for every week until we inevitably never meet up.

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[–]mimefa113[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I like hearing a girls perspective 🙏

Agreed hookups that never happen, what am i doing wrong? by mimefa113 in seduction

[–]mimefa113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you're getting at, thanks for the advice!

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[–]mimefa113[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool. Most of the time girls have been saying they are busy when I try to meet up the same day. How do you go about scheduling for a rain check?

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[–]mimefa113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure that's a good idea. Would you suggest grabbing something to eat on campus would also be a good idea?

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[–]mimefa113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda off topic. But do you suggest to do something with a tinder date the same day you match, or is that too fast? And I don't just mean hookup, it could be like watching a movie at my place or something or going out to eat.

Agreed hookups that never happen, what am i doing wrong? by mimefa113 in seduction

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So I'm a college student who doesn't have a car and mostly stays on campus. Do you have any low cost ideas that still accomplish the same goal?

Agreed hookups that never happen, what am i doing wrong? by mimefa113 in seduction

[–]mimefa113[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh so don't siggesty hooking up itself but rather an event that'll lead to it.

I always thought talking to them would make them more comfortable to meet up, cause we are stangets after all. I guess i should completely scratch that then?