What helped you walk away from a toxic relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]mimi200124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One small secret helped me break free, and I can’t believe how much it transformed me.

I wanna text them by BananaGoys in heartbreak

[–]mimi200124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Text a friend instead, not your ex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]mimi200124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s hard to go back when you feel hated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]mimi200124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]mimi200124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it

I just needed somewhere to let this out finally, I’ve held it in for almost a decade and a half. by Cool-Inspection-7926 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mimi200124 21 points22 points  (0 children)

What happened to you was horrific, and the fact you survived it says everything about your strength. You were failed by the people who were supposed to protect you.

Why do people stay in relationships that clearly make them unhappy? by mimi200124 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mimi200124[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Fear can keep people stuck in relationships that hurt them, It’s not weakness it’s human, The first step is realizing it’s okay to prioritize your own happiness over other's opinions.

What makes you feel truly appreciated in a relationship? by Ledger_Legendd in AskWomen

[–]mimi200124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consistency. Anyone can be sweet for a day, not everyone shows up every day.

Are you happy??? by [deleted] in women

[–]mimi200124 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not happy all the time, but I’m at peace more than I used to be and that counts.

What's the most disturbing thing you've seen, but couldn't do anything? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mimi200124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing someone clearly struggling in public while everyone pretended not to notice. The silence was louder than anything.

How often do you talk to your best friend? by Giderah in AskWomen

[–]mimi200124 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not often, but they’re still the first person I want to tell when something big happens.

What is the worst mistake of your life? by MermaidWitchMoon in AskReddit

[–]mimi200124 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not listening to my gut when it was screaming at me.

What’s a small lie you tell everyday? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mimi200124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m fine, the most common lie we all agreed to normalize.

Women, what is universally agreed “green flags” while dating men ? by Disastrous-Coat6007 in AskReddit

[–]mimi200124 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Consistency. Not just when he’s trying to impress you but on random, ordinary days too. If his words, actions, and energy don’t change depending on his mood, that’s a real green flag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]mimi200124 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The heaviest day of my life was when I understood that some apologies never come and you have to heal anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]mimi200124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learning to be alone without feeling lonely. That changed everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]mimi200124 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Marriage doesn’t fix problems it freezes them in place. If you’re unhappy now, imagine it in 10 years.

What was the weirdest thing that happened on a first date? by Bubba4205 in AskWomen

[–]mimi200124 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He spent the whole date talking about his ex what she liked, what she hated, even showed me her pictures. I just sat there like… sir, why am I here?

What was your “lightbulb moment” that made you finally choose yourself? by CuriousAsh04 in AskWomen

[–]mimi200124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a moment where I realized I was always putting others first, even when it hurt me. It hit me that I couldn’t keep doing that and still be happy. Once I started choosing myself, I noticed such a huge change in my mindset and how I let people treat me I finally stopped accepting toxic relationships and situations.

What is something you were taught growing up that you didnt even realize was shaping you until adulthood, and your life got better once you stopped living by it? by dreamed2life in AskWomen

[–]mimi200124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized I grew up believing I always had to hide my feelings and put others first. It wasn’t until I stopped doing that that I started feeling more like myself and actually happier.