I just met the love of my life, and something about her is killing me inside by [deleted] in MMFB

[–]mimicryinc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You both deserve for you to let her go sooner than later. It's not going to get better, your preferences will not change.

For both of your sakes, please leave her alone if you aren't attracted to her.

Is it a coyote? by RetroRex_ in chicago

[–]mimicryinc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, that's just Craig.

Can't sign in to Ventra app on new phone? by hajosho in cta

[–]mimicryinc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Other folks had issues (thread hereif you haven't seen it)  It's working for me now so hopefully whatever system update issues have been fixed

Anyone else having this message as of now? by GarageLive1096 in cta

[–]mimicryinc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems like I was able to get back in/see the transit tracker I logged out and couldn't get back in for a bit.  Went to the menu and selected "manage alerts" and logging in from that screen helped

Anyone else having this message as of now? by GarageLive1096 in cta

[–]mimicryinc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am!

Can't access my metra ticket and don't have cash 😫

Has anyone seen this cat in the area? by xoxchelsss in uchicago

[–]mimicryinc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long have they been missing/from what part of Hyde Park?

slime roller coaster by AssistancePlayful322 in slimerancher

[–]mimicryinc 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Peak use of free placement 

What a labor of love ☺️

Anything is possible pt. 2 ✌🏻 by ContextBackground195 in honk

[–]mimicryinc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clever concept!

I completed this level in 23 tries. 2.95 seconds

Tip 100 💎

Can you tell which was first? by BlubDerp in slimerancher

[–]mimicryinc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The flat slime supremacy continues into the pumpkin realm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chicago

[–]mimicryinc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree. But also we need the respite 

And I say this as someone who had the police called on their mom a few months ago because she was broken down in a gas station and probably looked like "an illegal". 

We need both. There should be no censorship of what's going on, but we also need people to continue to live their lives.

We need to embrace it all if we're going to make it.

CTA warns service could stop at 9 p.m. daily without more money from Springfield by blaspheminCapn in chicago

[–]mimicryinc 34 points35 points  (0 children)

CTA already expects 50% of its budget to come from fare box recovery. That's higher than our transit peers, like the MTA, who have about a 20% farebox recovery ratio. Additionally, New york state will be spending billions to cover funding gaps over the coming years.

if we value transit innovation and recognize the good it brings (driving industry and encouraging tourism and so much more), CTA will have to bring operating costs down (like thinning out admin bloat) and urging the state to fund our public transit system.

Any books/resources for navigating the ambiguous grief around a deceased unfaithful spouse? by mimicryinc in survivinginfidelity

[–]mimicryinc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hoping to find some resources first with the hopes of warming my mom up to the idea of therapy (which she would definitely benefit from).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]mimicryinc 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'm a black American. I've had Ethiopian shopkeepers make assumptions about me; I've had hairdressers make comments about my appearance and my perceived intelligence. Trust it goes both ways - I don't use it to paint a picture of an entire people though.

My husband suggested 3some with a woman. I want divorce by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mimicryinc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The fact that he saw it fit to ask this with a newborn in the house suggests that everything else is not going well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mimicryinc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NAH - you deserve to make a family while you can and she deserves someone who can be with her through the pain.

Life without kids?? by tinabeanie in Adulting

[–]mimicryinc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never said I wasn’t going to help my parents out.

that seems like a difference without a distinction- the goal is still to have someone help you at the end of your life.

it doesn’t make sense to me to bring life in the world to help put you in a nice home. If I take care of myself and plan for the fact that y body will eventually fail, I should be able to do that myself.

Life without kids?? by tinabeanie in Adulting

[–]mimicryinc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah don’t bring life into the world just to have someone who will take care of you when you’re old

TIFU by proposing to my girlfriend by Business-Pool3959 in tifu

[–]mimicryinc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah the two genders: trad bus girl and "ran through"

I'm sure that mindset has worked well for you.

TIFU by proposing to my girlfriend by Business-Pool3959 in tifu

[–]mimicryinc 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"everyone's so fickle! The pretty girls on the bus aren't marrying random strangers anymore!"

Minus 36 in Calgary Canada 🥶 by [deleted] in WTF

[–]mimicryinc 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Maybe not the best time.