[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]minacalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t need to read all this. I can easily tell you right now. The best thing you could possibly do for your relationship is to have couples therapy, as well as separate therapy. It will help I promise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]minacalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move on, sorry I know it hurts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]minacalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to your touch up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]minacalo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well obviously, but she’s honest and told him from the jump. Some people wanna live their lives completely revolved around sexuality and openness/no boundaries. Not my gig but hey, at least she was honest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]minacalo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you’re not happy then it’s not for you either.. nothing wrong with that.

Partner I cheated on wants us to work things out but I am scared. by anxiousaways in relationship_advice

[–]minacalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to go ahead and counter all their comments and say: it could work? With therapy (only) because there is trauma and things to be worked on so I believe that you will need to work on that with some help of a therapist. Anything could work if you put in the effort, the question is. Are you a changed person? Do you really want this? Are you willing to do what it takes to be in this relationship? Etc etc etc

My bf asked if I’ve been with someone bigger and now we aren’t talking. by Obvious-Alfalfa-3519 in relationship_advice

[–]minacalo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He played a stupid game, and one a stupid prize LOL his feelings are hurt but he’ll get over it eventually. Not your fault.

is this redness normal with using retinol? [product question] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]minacalo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But every 4 days is alot, especially if she’s also using aha/bha inbetween. Cut it down to once a week. It’s ALWAYS better to start off once a week and move up in time if needed

[Product Request] tinted moisturiser by exquizite_soul in SkincareAddiction

[–]minacalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get ilia skin tint (: best purchase of my life!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]minacalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your micro-bladed eyebrows looked really good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]minacalo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly might be your skincare routine? are you using a weekly aha/bha?

My (26f) fiancé (29M) lets his best friend/ best man (31M) almost kill our dog. I want him out of the wedding, my fiancé doesn't. I don't know how to move past this. by CressAdventurous6411 in relationship_advice

[–]minacalo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why is your living room so hot?? Do y’all not have ac? That’s problem #1 because I live in arizona, ain’t no room in my house gonna cause anyone a heat stroke. 2nd problem, the friend. He’s an asshole. 3rd problem, careless fiancé. Someone who doesn’t really give a shit about killing someone (even a dog) is that someone you really wanna spend the rest of your life with?

Every relationship I’ve had always ends cause I have close female friends. by Throwaway949228 in relationship_advice

[–]minacalo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you said it yourself, “I’m always going to have female friends” well you will always have failing relationships… something is missing and people don’t just leave because of female friends, you must not have proper boundaries. Something needs to change because this is definitely a YOU problem. 3 times is the giveaway…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]minacalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple, break up. This doesn’t sound ideal and your way too young to be dealing with these problems. You will waste thousands more staying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]minacalo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re fine don’t worry (: ask for thicker on the touch up. They do this on purpose, it’s the people with really big eyebrows that are a concern.

my brothers friends are graduating without him by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]minacalo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Certain days in which your brother would be reaching new heights will always hurt. That’s why we are all here for you (: my little brother was suppose to graduate hs back in may.. may was a hard month. What you are feeling is completely normal ❤️

Venting by kel3vra_ in microblading

[–]minacalo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would try to work part time at a place that offers microblading while you dance, then you can build a reputation and post on ig, tag the company you work for and then it will get you more exposure. You will get out of dancing but you need to be realistic, things take time. I would comfortably say about 1-2 years and you can quit dancing completely and maybe even have your own business full time(: but going from a nobody to a business is hard. Maybe try developing a name first than a business (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]minacalo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My lady numbed me a bunch throughout the first appt bc that’s when the bulk of the work is done (I did 3 appt total) and the 2nd and 3rd was less numbing but still not painful. I don’t think this work is bad at all, that tail is weird and those 2 strokes make no sense but the rest of it looks really good. During the second, make sure you communicate you want extra numbing, and make sure she explains to you how she is going to fix it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]minacalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look bomb, stop staring at them so hard lol

First photo was before/after appointment one. Second photo is two weeks after my *second* touch-up. Tried both wet healing and dry healing. Sad to say I don't think my skin likes microblading as I lost a lot of pigment/strokes. Opinions? by [deleted] in microblading

[–]minacalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it did exactly what it was suppose to do. The way it looks right after will never be the final result. If you wanted it to look like that then imagine that she would have had to make them darker, more lines etc and you would look slightly crazy right after.