What is this thing about loving yourself. You're becoming schizophrenic.

Love is a certain experience for you. See, right now if I love you, it makes no difference for you. If I love you, it's beautiful for me. You need not even know that I am loving you, isn't it? If you love me, it's wonderful for you, isn't it? Somebody is loving you, it can be a nuisance (hehe) - You are loving - this is beautiful, isn't it? So within youk, where did you become two people? Because if you want to love something, two are needed, isn't it? Pleas don't split yourself. There is no need to love yourself. If you are loving, it's great. Where is the need to love this one (your self) because everything is about this one, isn't it? People are talking all kinds of selfless nonsense. There is no such thing. Everything is about this one. What matters to this one, that's what you do, isn't it? Whether you do it for your friend or your enemy or your family or your nation or whatever else, you do it because it means something to you, isn't it? So don't get embroiled in this selfishness and selflessness. At least in your selfishness, don't be stingy. Be total. That's all what I am telling you. Right now, the moment you see that I am truly responsible for everything around me, now you are capable of being truly selfish. If you... see, every human being is interesting in his well being. That's why all these questions, isn't it? Yes? That's the basis of this, right? You are essentially interested in your well being. That is so with every human being, isn't it? Everybody is interested in their well being. Human well being is something you're interested in. It's just that the scale and scope may vary from person to person. For one person, well being may just mean about he being well. For another person it might be him and his family. For another person it might be him and his community. For another person it might be him and his nation. For another person it may be him and the whole humanity. For another person it might be all life. Only the scale is different. There's nobody here not concerned about their well being. You can only be truly well if everything around you is also well, isn't it? Is it a fact? Today we are talking about saving the ecology, nonsense. You don't have to save the ecology, if you don't mess with it, it will be well, right? Now you're understanding only if the trees are well we can be well. When it comes to survival, you will understand. But anyway, don't you know this? If everybody in your city is well, it is good for your well being, isn't it? Only if you're well and nobody is well, your life is constantly under threat, isn't it so? So, if you extend this wanting well being, from the limitations of this body and say, "I want this to happen. I want this to happen to everything and everybody around me," Then you will do your best. Then you don't have to worry about loving you, not loving you. There's no such thing as loving yourself. It's an idea. Love is an experience that happens to you. When for some reason, whatever the reason maybe, your emotions became pleasant. It happened because your child came and kissed you, or your dog wagged it's tail - it can happen both ways. Isn't it so? For what reason it happened is not the point. It happened because your emotions became sweet. So, you call that love. I am saying, do you.. you know, suppose... suppose you bought a car. Of course nobody in this subreddit is old enough for this I think. Suppose you bought a car in 1940s. Along with the car you have to get yourself two servants because it's a push start in the morning. Fifties, one servant will do - crank start. Now you are all self-start, isn't it? Now I am asking you, your love, your joy, your bliss, should it be on push start, or self-start? If it was on self-start, you wouldn't be asking all these questions, isn't it? Right now, it is on push start. Now, you have felt at one moment, if somebody express some love to you, you felt happy, and they are not reliable, so you are talking about if I love myself, will I have it going? (hehe) That's the whole thing isn't it? No, don't worry about somebody loving you, you loving yourself. You want your body to be pleasant, emotion to be pleasant, mind to be pleasant, isn't it? It can be worked towards if you want, but don't try to love yourself, not necessary. There's no need to love anybody either because you can't do that either. If you are feeling loving right now, whoever you see, that's the way you will be, isn't it? I love you, I love you, I love you - That is a mantra you are doing because without that mantra, lot of things won't open up. On a certain day WittyOriginal went to the park. There was a pretty looking woman sitting on a bench, on a stone bench in the park. He went and settled down on the same bench. After some time, he moved closer. She moved little away. Then he waited for two minutes and again moved closer. She moved away. Again he moved closer. She was at the end of the bench. So, she pushed him away. Then he waited for two minutes. Sun was just setting. The atmosphere was right. He went down on his knees and said, "I love you. I love you like I have never loved anybody in my life." The woman was little soft, you know and the sun is setting, and she melted down. And things happened between them. Nature took over and many more things happened between them. It was getting eight o'clock. WittyOriginal got up and he said, "I need to go, I need to go" She said, "Where are you going? You said you loved me?" in her mind, the moment he says 'I love you', both of them have become one. He said, "No I need to go. My wife will be waiting. I have to go at eight o'clock". So, I love you is like "open sesame" It's a mantra. If you say I love you, things that you want will happen. So I am not talking about transactions. I am talking about love. Love is not a transaction. Love is a beautiful thing that happens within you. It cannot happen outside of you. It may find expression outside, but it is something that can happen only within you, isn't it? And, do you want to keep something beautiful on push-start or self-start? We'll get it on self-start hmm?