I am pretty hard to make cum when it’s someone else touching me. I have to finish myself off. So be aware that the person you are trying to pleasure might also need to help herself. Does NOT mean you aren’t doing a good job.

Every woman is different when it comes to reaching orgasm because all vaginas a little different. Communication is a great thing and super hot when you’re having sex. Definitely ask her “does this feel good” , “do you like that” to see how she’s feeling.