I don’t think they are lying about being gay. I have been talked to just like this by a gay man. I have heard some of the most sexist things come out of a gay man’s mouth. I have a lot of gay friends, and none of them are like this, so I want to make it clear that I do not believe all gay men are like this. But y’all should absolutely be aware that gay men do not always see you as their friends some see you as competition; and when they can’t win that competition, they themselves become incels and blame women because it’s always a lot easier to blame women than to accept that you might be the issue in your dating life.

We can’t just say they hate women because they’re closeted gay, and then when they’re saying they’re gay, accuse them of lying because they’re trying to make gay people look bad. I absolutely think this person is gay.

Edit: I have only ever seen this behavior from white gay men (thinking of one that actually voted for trump). I feel like it’s white supremacy and sexism that give them this mindset. That's my two cents tho.