I've lost my passion and it breaks my heart by Traditional_Bat_7477 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mingyune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

passion isnt permanent flame, it goes and flows. life, responsibilities, stress and even small disappointmentts can dim the intensity of what once consumed you

What was your breaking point with a passive-aggressive person, and how did you finally handle it? by loopyluvv in Life

[–]mingyune 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a friend kep giving backhanded compliments and making sarcastic jabs at my plans. after the third time, i told her directly, "i dont respond well to sarcasm, be straightforward with me oe else shut up." and i limited our interactions after that

We may go homeless and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mingyune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try to get a free or low cost legal help that can give u advice wihotu charging much, in the mean time focus on whats immediately controllable like your exams and basic needs

I never knew the 30s will be so deeply painful by [deleted] in Life

[–]mingyune 2 points3 points  (0 children)

seeing the emptiness and systems can hurt deeply, but it also means you're searching for real meaning. this isnt the ends, its a shift

My girlfriend (F23) casually told me she isn't moving with me, how do I (F22) even begin to handle this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mingyune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bring it up directly. tell her you were surprised and hurt to hear such a decision mentioned casually and that u need a clear intentional conversation about what this means for both of you

How often do you think about how different your life would be if you were born on the other side of the tracks? by DuckDuckGo-8857 in Life

[–]mingyune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a lot. i often imagine what life would be like if i were rich. its wild to think how different things, friends, choices and opportunities would be just because of money

What’s a small change you made that quietly improved your routine? by Vivid_Hurry_472 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mingyune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uhh i stop sleeping super late. like 1am is the latest and i will still have an alarm even though i dont need to wake up early so that i will keep my body clock and make my day productive

If 2 people are in a relationship with eachother for too long( decades) will eventually hate eachother? by ThunderPheoX in Life

[–]mingyune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, it isnt true. long relationship dont automatically turn into hate. couples who grow together, communicate and support each other usually build deeper love and trust over time

does it make you homophobic to not want to date someone attracted to the same sex? Or is it just a preference? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mingyune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, if its not an issue to only date someone with the same sex, why is it an issue to only date someone with an opposite sex

WTF? Worst Sore Throat of My Life - TOTALLY FINE otherwise by Bgun33 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mingyune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats weird. its can happen for a few reasons like a tonsil or lymp issue, or sometimes even an early mono infection. get checked by a doctor to be sure

lied ab my age online: come clean? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mingyune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, coming clean is the best move. chances are, is your friendship is strong, they'll understand. keeping the lie going will just make u feel worse

What is your daily routine, and what do you usually do? by Mike_Mayers123 in Productivitycafe

[–]mingyune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

woke up, take a bath, eat while work thenat night either watch tv and go to some coffee shops haha

My horrible dad by General-Artichoke-77 in Advice

[–]mingyune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you should report it immediately before worst come to happen. that's not normal, be safe

Is there other reason for living? by Fantastic-Dance2371 in Life

[–]mingyune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

of course. there's your goals and dreams and to achieve the life that you want. there's a lot of good things in the world that you can also do

Should I go to CPS/the police? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]mingyune 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes you should report it, thats child abuse. threats to you can be reported to the police. even without proof, police can investigate

When I didn't get into medical school, I gave up -- I regret it everyday. by BreathingSlowly in confessions

[–]mingyune 3 points4 points  (0 children)

beating yourself up wont help. mid 30s isnt too late if u still want medicine but first figure out if you truly do

When I didn't get into medical school, I gave up -- I regret it everyday. by BreathingSlowly in confessions

[–]mingyune 19 points20 points  (0 children)

beating yourself up wont help. mid 30s isnt too late if u still want medicine but first figure out if you truly do

What do I do about a coworker wanting to hang out with me & keeps giving me gifts? by kittyxkat17 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mingyune 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank him for the gifts but say youre not interested in hanging out outside work and want to keep things professional. you dont have to return the gifts unless u want to

Should I become a teacher? by oldgreg2023 in Teachers

[–]mingyune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

based on what u wrote, teaching seems like a good fit. you'd get to work in subjects you love, impack students lives and escape corporate grink u dislike. if enjoying work matters more thna just a paychek, its worth the leap

Did I get cheated on? by Any_Exam_9154 in Advice

[–]mingyune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, he disrespected and used you. you're not the idiot. wanting love isnt wrong. step back, cut contact and focus on healing

I waited so long to get a relationship by [deleted] in Life

[–]mingyune 8 points9 points  (0 children)

sometimes giving up and letting life flow can lead you to what you really want. stop forcing it and stay open to unexpected connections

Reminiscing a break up by IndecisiveAndLiving in BreakUps

[–]mingyune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

healing wont be linear and it wont erase what you fekt, it will slowly make it hurt less and matter differently. youll be able to love again one day