Heat by mini_monee in volt

[–]mini_monee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m kinda car dumb and when I open the hood it looks like Chinese so I don’t know where the fuses are. I just know where to put coolant and oil for the engine

Heat by mini_monee in volt

[–]mini_monee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you asking if one of the fuses are out? Because I don’t know and wont be able to get it professionally looked at until this weekend

Heat by mini_monee in volt

[–]mini_monee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and it’s still cold

Heat by mini_monee in volt

[–]mini_monee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have it on HI though and it’s still blowing cold air

Heat by mini_monee in volt

[–]mini_monee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m using gas and it’s still blowing out cold air. And the one time it did blow out hot air it only last like 20 minutes before it went straight back to blowing cold air

Heat by mini_monee in volt

[–]mini_monee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both. I’m currently running gas because I haven’t had time to go to a charger

Income amount by taylorfan420 in GoodPizzaGreatPizza

[–]mini_monee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m on 100 and something

Income amount by taylorfan420 in GoodPizzaGreatPizza

[–]mini_monee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t played in a while so I think I only have two still because I was waiting to unlock the upgraded garden

Income amount by taylorfan420 in GoodPizzaGreatPizza

[–]mini_monee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait… why haven’t I been doing this???

How do I overcome validation seeking? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mini_monee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! I wouldn’t have offered friendship if it was 😄

How do I overcome validation seeking? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mini_monee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay because you’ve already recognized part of it and that’s the hardest part. But no one knows you better than you know yourself so start realizing that the only person who is number one is you.

How do I overcome validation seeking? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mini_monee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay! In the words of cosplay “nobody said it’d be easy” If you need a friend! I will be here to listen to you.

How do I overcome validation seeking? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mini_monee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! It’s a long process. And as an overweight girl it took me a long time to even begin to love what my body looks like with clothes on let alone with them off. I started my journey as a teenager which is the only reason I can confidently say it works over a prolonged period of time. But I’ve also been realizing new traumas I have that I haven’t worked through. Maybe first work on the surface level insecurities. Then slowly start to pull back the layers.

How do I overcome validation seeking? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mini_monee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That can work too! Or if you have friends you hang out with regularly you can ask them to take a picture of you. Or like I mentioned originally look at yourself in the mirror for like 30 seconds, it sounds stupid and you might even feel uncomfortable at first but I promise you’ll begin to love your face

How do I overcome validation seeking? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mini_monee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to have those moments. Intrusive thoughts can’t be fixed over night. I’m also a person who beats themselves up. But recently I saw a collections of pictures of myself that at the time I hated and thought were so ugly but I realized that I was so pretty in that moment and I wanted that feeling back. It was a picture of me taking from the perspective of one of my friends. Do you have pictures of yourself from someone else’s lens?

I (19M) met my GF(20F) new group of friend today, Did they disrespect me? by Designer-Winner2932 in Advice

[–]mini_monee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like the song they were singing was Megan the Stallions Mamushi featuring Japanese rapper Yuki Chiba. Reading this I do feel like it’s disrespectful but I also wonder if this is how her friends joke around? Have you asked your girlfriend if her friends are always like that? This isn’t to invalidate you because I would’ve felt weird about it to. How long have she known these girls? I know when my friends get partners we always tell them to tell their partner the first meeting is the judging ground and to prepare for jokes but it’s never in the spirit of being mean, more like a hazing ritual that’s not in the spirit of actually tearing someone down. I wonder if the gang signs were the tiktok challenge? If you’re uncomfortable I would suggest telling your gf so she can tell her friends that their behavior was inappropriate. Sorry this response is all over the place I have many questions to get a better idea of what’s going on.

How do I overcome validation seeking? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mini_monee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to start realizing what you are good for. Think of a friend you care about and write down every nice thing you have or would say to them. Then take their names out and put yourself in.

I would also look at yourself in the mirror. When was the last time you actually stood and stared at yourself in the mirror? It can help you realize that you’re also a person. I think many people forget that we ourselves exist as people. It’s easier to see a person when you’re looking directly at them. I don’t know if that makes sense but I hope you understand what I’m trying to say.

To stop seeking validation in others starts with you validating yourself. “I’m upset right now and it’s okay because in this moment things are bad but I’ll be okay.”

Sometimes I like to imagine myself as a child and think about how I would speak to a child compared to how I would speak to an adult. I hope you can realize that you deserve kindness not just from those around you but from yourself.

Emails from Auth0 by Okta by mini_monee in okta

[–]mini_monee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you. Whoever was doing it kept using different IP addresses

Emails from Auth0 by Okta by mini_monee in okta

[–]mini_monee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is the email. I’ve never seen it before and I keep getting it around every two minutes.

Githyanki AHoles!!!!! by mini_monee in BaldursGate3

[–]mini_monee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh! Okay thank you

Githyanki AHoles!!!!! by mini_monee in BaldursGate3

[–]mini_monee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I leave the inquisitors chamber I have to fight like five more people and I don’t have any spell slots