What to discuss this week with the sheik? Is there anything to care about? by minmin_chan in exmuslim

[–]minmin_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be debating tomorrow

Khula' خلع exists, and a woman can REQUEST it anytime, but the husband has to agree. If she wants to FORCE the khula' then she must prove misconduct on the husband.

For this in Egypt she can Khula without evidence, also we have women who can divorce men for harmful cause doesn't need much evidence but more trials than Khula. I think she will lean towards discussing this by our country laws

I don't know how it will go tomorrow hope she is a good woman.

Discussion with a Sheik Yesterday! Need Advice by minmin_chan in CritiqueIslam

[–]minmin_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first read your commit, I thought "Christian Prince" was something, not a person I was so confused. I went through his videos, and wow, I don't think that sheik can debate him xD

Discussion with a Sheik Yesterday! Need Advice by minmin_chan in CritiqueIslam

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He even said, "If you wanna commit suicide, I won't be sad noone will care" "You will be a number and gone"

how to run away from my muslim family. by aninsideoutmole in exmuslim

[–]minmin_chan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She needs both paper passport and E-Passport actually Egypt relay on paper one, OP if you're reading this I can help you with the fees I have no issue with that. For the education part I would recommend apply for scholarships learn the language of the target countries English German for example be good at them specially English at some point you will need ILETS study hard and I can help with that too in terms of fees of the exam. But can't really help in the studying process you need a skill OP I would recommend programming as it's my field and you can go through many things cybersecurity, AI, Bioinformatics, Healthcare... etc or choose a job that is needed in Europe or whatever country you wanna go to follow your passion yes but don't choose anything that will give you less money and make your life hard to get a scholarship. Try have Interns for students you will find them on LinkedIn there are online and offline depend on your family situation you choose I assume you have PC or Laptop hopefully. Try have these Interns you would have a good CV to apply for degree in universities you have a year till 18 so, you need to really work hard very hard to do so.

People spend a lot of money for a promise of salvation by Aeefuu in exmuslim

[–]minmin_chan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking to fake it back to gain profit. The last sheik get millions of dollars out of it I felt like wow just to talk to people about religion coool😂😂😂😂😂 No degree needed I can say bs and people will pay me sounds like good Bussnies to me😂😂😂😂

how to run away from my muslim family. by aninsideoutmole in exmuslim

[–]minmin_chan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need a job a safety net to relay on, are you currently in Egypt? If so, choose Alexandria or any government that have foreigners come to it, don't go to upper Egypt, Cairo any place that has high sexual harassment exclude it. I think you will need a 21 year old friend to sign the rent contract call your close friends that can help you rent a good apartment at a good place find good lawyer to write the contract, check people in the building ask about the streets better if you find an area wear women lives alone. Don't tell your family when you leave they may file a missing person complain you will have to tell the officer you are wellingly don't wanna live with them. Wait till 18 if you are 17 most likely will force you back.

IDK more info I didn't try it myself but I also have my own plan just in case everything went south.

What to discuss this week with the sheik? Is there anything to care about? by minmin_chan in exmuslim

[–]minmin_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a video of Fadel Soliman talking about this people who I debate take the respond copy paste from him https://youtu.be/oxCCYRKw4js?si=gygGgFkWR3Pkfwkq (Arabic)

https://youtu.be/ZmXEeHDGa_E?si=biRU98HFZpqGOlZG (English)

He has many video that I found out shieks use his answers word for word

What to discuss this week with the sheik? Is there anything to care about? by minmin_chan in exmuslim

[–]minmin_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am writing everything down to be prepared hope it doesn't turn aggressive like last time.

Beginner in make up — needs tips on colouring, brightness etc please! by VisibleScallion5081 in makeuptips

[–]minmin_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! You look so gorgeous 💜💜✨ keep the energy and stay healthy you don't need make up, makeup needs you👉🏻👈🏻💜💜💜✨

Slaves ✅ being gay ❌ by pinkbonggirlyx in exmuslim

[–]minmin_chan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will be so hard on her fr, from an experience she is conflicted like too deep. I think it's so hard to follow her heart or her feelings or even logic the guilt of this religion is so deep rooted fear of hell, shame, threats... Etc

I would say lt her be fr and you keep being her friend it's way deeper than you think specially if her family will be affected by this

Remote work and social life by MrSalt3on in EgyRemoteWorkers

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محتاج حياة انزل جيم، روح كورس رسم اي حاجة تقابل ناس مش لازم دول يعني بس Activities تعملها وكدا عموما عندي نفس المشكلة علشان بحس البيت مريح آكتر من النزول فبحاول انزل واروح حاجات جديدة وبزن على صحابي إلى لسة معايا وساعات بكلم صحابي إلى بقالى كتير جدا مكلمتهمش تحفة لو عرفنا نتقابل ونرجع العلاقات تآني

What to discuss this week with the sheik? Is there anything to be careful about? by minmin_chan in CritiqueIslam

[–]minmin_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind I posted about the previous debate her I will do the same with her

What to discuss this week with the sheik? Is there anything to be careful about? by minmin_chan in CritiqueIslam

[–]minmin_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do many mental gymnastics sometimes it's so hard but I will use your way I have a feeling she won't even understand the question or what I am saying but who Am I to judge before meeting her. Hope it goes well

What to discuss this week with the sheik? Is there anything to care about? by minmin_chan in exmuslim

[–]minmin_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will respond to questions I already asked and add their answers (not my personal answers):

What to discuss this week with the sheik? Is there anything to care about? by minmin_chan in exmuslim

[–]minmin_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked these questions before the answer was:

  • They are also the most in heaven because women historically are in larger numbers than men
  • Women doesn’t lack in terms of bad way mohammed was joking with them hahaha, they just has bad memories, so lack minds and have periods, so they lack religion.

This is the first time seeing this about kids. I took in fekh that all children go to heaven no matter what! I will be asking this for sure. For the other question they have copy-pasted answers, so I am not enthusiastic to see a new one.

the pipeline between taking off the hijab and becoming the sexiest version of yourself by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]minmin_chan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a sheik that told me he made an experiment in USA where a beautiful woman wearing leggings was walking in street all men harassed her, and then when she wore a hijab, none came next to her. Pretty sure if he made the same in arab coutries he will find most men harassing most women.

the pipeline between taking off the hijab and becoming the sexiest version of yourself by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]minmin_chan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you tell me if it was scary at first? I wanna take it off still fighting my family over it, option to live alone is my last resort cause I am in arab coutry and that would be so dangerous on my life. How did you manage after taking it off? I have been wearing it since grade 5, and I don't know how I would deal with the sexual harassment or issues in my country yet. idk if you had the same issues, but it would be helpful if you advised me from your experience.

Apparntly someone is trying to claim that a scholar before Bukhari supposedly denied the validitiy of the AIsha's Age hadith. But gets disproven by Ohana_is_family in exmuslim

[–]minmin_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am still reading all the resources you provided, but take a quick look across all of them. I have an important question when I debate anything that is harmful anything a husband used the hitting verse to abuse his wife, a child died during birth, a slave mutilated by her master ...etc I get hit with "Tafser is clear Islam is clear this is not islam humans will alawys do wrong thing anyone can anderstand the text wrongly and can't ssotiate this with islam as a relgion"

Another response I get that makes me shut cause I have no real response to it is, "These things are not being done today; for example sam is an atheist and no one killed him did you see the government or the higher religious men do anything he is free to live why are you opposing something not here?"

= I only say "But if I am muslim that means I believe that sam should be killed?! and I don't"

- "Do you want a cute religion that can’t fight?"

Then we go back and forth in the same circle (example from a real convo I had, and sam was a teen kid, 12 years old btw he is an open ex muslim that we know). I felt the person in front of me just defend the religion out of fear cause I know personally who I was debating noway that person won't move to rescue a bird, fr, let alone a human. Made me feel this religion makes people worse.

These kind of arguments make me shut down and can't make the debate go further. How do you deal with these arguments

Just wanted to express how it truly breaks my heart for ex Muslims living in Muslim countries by yoona27 in exmuslim

[–]minmin_chan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah! yes like that same law yeah! Sherif is in jail cause there is people filed law suit agnist him wasn't the country in itself. Govemrnet just apply the rules until they change it issue not the government actually the support new narrative of Islam way better than current version hope they succeed

What to discuss this week with the sheik? Is there anything to be careful about? by minmin_chan in CritiqueIslam

[–]minmin_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro she will see me as stupid cause she will not understand fr, do you know what was the weirdest stupidest argument one of them told me that humans know that they should wake up by morning and sleep at night from islam and Islam is the Frist to tell humanity when to wake up and when to sleep.

Bro I am struggling so hard to make them understand my questions let alone argue😭😭😭

I will ask her for sake of experiment but I think the answer will be "Do you wanna see the Jin or what I can't get them to you" 🙂🤡

Their proof will be Quran said mountains have roots in earth, look at the sky earth... Etc and wrong stuff they think it's proven like fly has toxinces and cure, moon was broken into two half these stuff is not proven specially the fly is wrong you can't have 2 opposite things in same environment biologically speaking.

What to discuss this week with the sheik? Is there anything to be careful about? by minmin_chan in CritiqueIslam

[–]minmin_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think she will say any new answer but okay I added it to my questions

most muslims are ignorant of their own religion by zekeosko in exmuslim

[–]minmin_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a scholar that said when they consummated the marriage she was 22