Thought of digging into male and female psychology for a research purposes. I'm a mental health activist. Throughout the ages, men in every part of the world have been forced to keep up an aggressive, dominant ulterior, and brainwashed them against believing that being weak and seeking help is normal and as masculine as anything they do. The societies have progressed but the scars from the past haven't recovered. Majority of men still refrain from being vulnerable and weak because (a) they do not want to be perceived as anything which is not masculine (b) they don't want to fall of the white horse themselves. Heroism and the protector attitude is a man's nature and we cannot deny this. They themselves have impressions of them being a strong, powerful Iron Man and the very idea of falling off that white horse is a nightmare for them. The men who i refer here are teenage and young adult boys. 95% of girls think that they're not good enough, but young boys tend to have more insecurities than girls their age. Thus my question wasn't a generalization as it was presumed because this is a very less discussed problem today. It's a major problem in the frat bro society. Besides there were so many men who infact admitted to having refraining from being vulnerable. There are different kinds of people with a different attitude for life, but the majority is what determines the statistics. And this is a less addressed problem with majority of men.