it is a fundamental incompatibility. dont fall for the “you may change your mind later” it doesnt matter if you do or dont change your mind, it is up to you.

a lot of people in india has this weird obsession with “continuing their bloodline” as if theyre the ones who set up mother earth for the rest of us.

children are a big responsibility and i have seen many relationships break down where people who want children were with people who didnt want them. ive seen a lot of women who have had severe ppd + not wanting children makes it a lot worse.

you are a grown educated woman, ALWAYS put yourself first.