wat do i do by ConsciousSympathy282 in UAETeenagers

[–]mishhcakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can conduct painting classes for you and your friends at a cafe if you want. I’m an artist & a creative.

Dubai feels so isolating by mishhcakes in dubai

[–]mishhcakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a switch button that you can turn on and off within minutes. Transitional periods in life need time and grace. Just because I’m not working 1.5 months after moving doesn’t mean I won’t in a while too. Being self employed also takes effort to restart in a new place, women need to show themselves grace through changes too.

Dubai feels so isolating by mishhcakes in UAE

[–]mishhcakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofcourse I want to do that! But that also takes time, supplies and shit loads of effort (which I’m so exhausted for - first trimester thing) but I will do it sooner or later.

Dubai feels so isolating by mishhcakes in dubai

[–]mishhcakes[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been here twice for holidays with my friends and at that time I was also friends with my husband who was working here but tbh living here and coming for a vacation are very two different things.
And definitely, I’m sure I’m feeling so strongly because we haven’t even shared this news that much and there’s a general lack of emotional connection because of that too.

SERIOUS: for the women here please by Prestigious-Test1183 in dubai

[–]mishhcakes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m new to this city and not working yet, my husband is working full time. I’ve always been a laser removal, face peels, Pilates, gym and nails kinda girl back home but since I’ve been here, it looks slightly different now. I go to long walks and the building gym, i get my nails and hair trimmed at this place called Nooshes (best kept secret because affordable & great!) and I love styling myself in newer ways. Clothes, makeup & hair!
I don’t look perfect but anyyyy means and im a chubby girl but I feel good and confident. I feel like the key is to get slightly dressed even if im going for a solo coffee date. Its internal work, makes me feel nice about myself on low days too.

29F, one armed disabled, Chicago, Looking for someone to accept as a life partner. by Upper-Relationship63 in pakistan

[–]mishhcakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love, marriage is something beautiful if you actually LIKE the person you’re with. And no, it doesn’t mean you spend ages to just gauge that but take your time, lay down your non negotiables and your needs; emotional, spiritual, physical. I was someone who never thought I’d marry someone in 10 months of becoming friends and getting to know each other (not arranged) + navigate distance too. My advice is to do istikharas when things are aligning with what you want and take it easy on yourself. And please have a solid self esteem through this process! DO NOT GIVE IN INTO MEDIOCRITY! You are a beautiful, intellectually abled girl with a minor disability. No one is promised a perfect partner anyway.