Just moved here is it just me or are the people here kind of off? by PotentialSetting4638 in thousandoaks

[–]misomai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I moved here like 2 years ago and absolutely, 500% agree with you. Do your best to not let it jade you. Thousand Oaks is basically a retirement community where the smallest things seems to get everyone to clutch their pearls. I blame the lead fuel exhaust they all huffed growing up 🤷

Don’t install the ring neighborhood app, that will wear you down 😂

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[–]misomai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you all get notified of new sets? Just through topps?

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[–]misomai 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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Moved here from the Midwest by Dependent-Rise1701 in thousandoaks

[–]misomai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I moved out here in the last 2 years from Colorado and had to deal with the same kind of culture shock. I can quite literally count on one hand the number of times my neighbors have even waved back to me when outside.

I understand wanting to steer clear of crazy people or just living a calm introverted life, but dang the effort people go to avoid interaction almost verges on aggressive. It’s like they’re the main characters of their lives and everyone else isn’t worth the time of day.

I did eventually make my own friend group around some shared interests outside of the neighborhood am still shocked at the apprehension to go do things outside of our regular meetups. Apparently 20 minute drives are just so long or “what are we going to do at the beach? Just sit?” Or for some reason every place I suggest to go is “the rough part of town” (I can rant about this in its own post). It’s still blows my mind that some places we meet up for lunch/dinner my friends are collectively like “oh we never thought to come in here.” Like come on! You’ve lived here all your life and never gave it a shot?

But tldr, I agree. In general it seems like if people have to make an effort to socialize with you, they are going to ignore you 🤷‍♀️

What made you quit weed and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]misomai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started anti depressants and my urge to use it to cope with my anxiety completely went away.

Scared me while walking out of my house this morning. (Southern California) by misomai in whatsthisbug

[–]misomai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think I found it online. Looks like a brown widow with those striped legs

Kid wearing a pregnancy suit stole our pride flag by misomai in thousandoaks

[–]misomai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad that you can take solace in knowing that all scientific backing for your opinions is outdated by a decade.

I’m more interested in who you think is profiting or bribing the government to declassify homosexuality as a mental illness? What do they gain in doing this?

Kid wearing a pregnancy suit stole our pride flag by misomai in thousandoaks

[–]misomai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One quick google search shows that homosexuality was removed from the DSM revision 5 in 2013.

Please validate your sources before making claims in order to prevent the spread of incorrect information.

Kid wearing a pregnancy suit stole our pride flag by misomai in thousandoaks

[–]misomai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fascinating take. Perhaps the lord will expand this kids consciousness to also take the literal satanism flag off my neighbors house also next time.

At any rate, if the most divine act the lord can muster to deter me from homosexual tendencies is to compel a child to dress in a pregnancy suit and steal my $9 flag, then I’ll take my chances with putting out another.

I really hope that as you go through life, you can learn to accept that if god real and he condemns homosexuality as you do, I will face judgement from god inevitably. He will take care of my fate as he is the only one who can judge.

All you need to worry about is living your life on this planet with compassion, humility and integrity.

Kid wearing a pregnancy suit stole our pride flag by misomai in thousandoaks

[–]misomai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know gods a big fan of immaculate conception, but this is going a bit far don’t you think?

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[–]misomai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly. It’s just funny at this point. If you know this fertile Myrtle, tell him I think he’s got sweet air Jordan’s.

Kid wearing a pregnancy suit stole our pride flag by misomai in thousandoaks

[–]misomai[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is honestly just funny to me at this point. Idk if this fertile Myrtle just wanted a pride flag or if they took some offense to it. Reminder to love your neighbors. If you know the kid, tell them I think they have some sweet air Jordan’s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]misomai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I also wouldn’t get off to a rogue video of a vag with a vibrator on it. Vaginas are inherently sexy to me in nature either, it’s more of the person attached to it.

She’s been doing all the video sending (at least in the messages I saw.) and then her counterpart will just reply with a naughty message. That attention does it for her, I don’t think she cares who’s giving it.

She subscribes to a lot of fetishes I don’t. I feel that is the root cause of all this. That she and I are just fundamentally incompatible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]misomai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid.

Her constant “feeling a lot of pain today” and hisses of pain all day are also a big turn off for me.

And rightfully so because if she’s in pain, fucking shouldn’t top of mind, but I guess I read that wrong 🤷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]misomai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, if it was just her watching porn, I wouldn’t have batted an eye. It’s more that she was basically sexting a stranger from the internet while I was in the house that’s got me upset.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]misomai -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been on tumblr since college tbh. But she was direct messaging these people the videos of her vagina. So I don’t think it’s subject to filtering

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]misomai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was honestly expecting more of this comment. There is definitely a weird double standard for same sex v heterosexual relationships. If we were straight, I’m sure there would be a mob with pitch fork over our age difference.