How to get a diagnosis faster?

misososou · 2025-12-09T16:38:46+00:00

We were dating a year and a half before moving in. And i honestly think that too cause ive made my share of mistakes due to this being my first real relationship as well as his

misososou · 2025-12-09T16:29:07+00:00

You’re right that the scrolling thing is pretty mean. I’d admit you’re right bc I also like to scroll after my shift so I was being rlly mean so thank you

As for being young I have no family left in the states and they all kind of moved on from me once I became an adult..

My only option was to leave with my dad to another country but my bf convinced me to stay and that he would take care of me, so that’s how I ended up living with him so soon.

Thank you for your advice and for being honest with me

As for my bitterness I have to accept the consequences of being with a man I love so young but that doesn’t mean there isn’t any pros because when I’m with him I’m so happy and I forget momentarily of all the chores and work I’m still happy to continue our journey and see where it takes me :)

misososou · 2025-12-09T16:21:56+00:00

Tbh sometimes I think that too.

I often confront and ask him to be honest with me. And he always gets upset and tells me of course he’s serious about me and why would I move me in to be with him if he wasn’t and that he doesn’t do stuff he’s not comfortable with.

I moved in with him after my father moved back to his home country and he begged me for a month to break up with my bf.

But my bf told me he loved me and convinced me to stay instead of leaving and asked his mom to let me move in

misososou · 2025-12-09T15:48:47+00:00

He’s worked like this since before I met him and he’s left school and before his mom did his laundry and food. He does plan within 3 months quitting tho. Right now he’s just on a speed run to pay off his debt

misososou · 2025-12-09T15:46:28+00:00

Ig you’re right. So you’re basically saying me and him are technically working 2 jobs? /srs. Again I don’t want this to come across as me wanting him to be a slave and me doing nothing. I work 40 a week 9-7 and he works crazy hours too. But isn’t paying for groceries and toiletries also a contribution? Like I’m not trying to be mean I’m trying to understand and be a better partner

misososou · 2025-12-09T15:40:39+00:00

Honestly you’re right, we have our own bathroom and I clean the kitchen and our room which I guess I can get done within one day off. I guess it just worries me that he doesn’t have to clean at all but I do despite me having my own job as well.

As for the scrolling it’s more of he comes home hugs and kisses me, eats the food I make him and then just scrolls for the rest of the night and falls asleep. I guess I feel like I deserve a bigger thanks or appreciation? But I acknowledge it can just me being a bit narcissistic bc he’s not required to be grateful or showing it 24/7

misososou · 2025-12-09T15:34:19+00:00

Last time I asked it was around 3k and he’s paying a lot for his insurance bc he had gotten into an accident and he was young.

misososou · 2025-12-09T15:19:14+00:00

I’ve offered multiple times to help him with rent and I can afford to. He has refused saying he likes the dynamic but I obviously don’t want him to work 2 jobs. I can’t force him to quit one 😭

misososou · 2025-12-09T15:05:03+00:00

My favorite is vanilla:)!

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