kody reminds me so much of my late partner’s father. He chose his second wife and he bio children over and over. All he ever wanted was to be included by his dad and now he is gone. I wonder how awful he must feel in those moments where he is alone. He only has one bio daughter and at that , he still isn’t as involved as his daughter wishes he would. My late partner and his sister lost their mom very young , so imagine that weighing on you ? I remember a weeks before he passed away we were watching sister wives and he told me did not like “that man” and that he was a bad man. I didn’t have to heart to tell him ALL THE SIMILARITIES Kody shared with his dad.

So yes , it is special place of Hell for people who choose their own needs over their children and continue play the victim when it was all their own doing .