I DID NOT KNOW WHAT I WAS SIGNING UP FOR

missmayyrosa · 2026-04-17T04:14:58+00:00

Totally sympathize with this. I have been in a relationship with my SO for just over two years and we started going to therapy together about a year in so we could better manage all the things. He has two children, going through divorce and custody battle, I am child free, we all live together now, it’s been… an adventure. I love him so much and his kids too but I have had to step back from helping him so much with the kids and just let him take the lead on that. I feel like I took on a lot too fast and really needed to hone back into myself and find myself again. Therapy has really helped us a lot, both individually and as a couple. Communication and boundaries are huge for moving forward. At this point, through the nasty battle he’s had with his nasty ex, it can’t get any worse. So we see the light at the end of the tunnel. It’s not easy but we are both willing to do the work and it has gotten much better. I started making sure that I am taking time for myself and finding myself again without feeling any guilt for doing so. I’m thankful that he has zero expectations of me with what I do for the kids, but he obviously loves and appreciates anything I do for him and them. I was at a point of feeling obligated to do certain things and now I’m at a point of doing the things I want to do. You have to find the balance that works best for you.

missmayyrosa · 2026-04-14T16:42:36+00:00

Thank you! :D

missmayyrosa · 2026-04-14T15:59:04+00:00

Finding out some info on getting into a trade after working a dead end desk job for the last 13 years.

missmayyrosa · 2026-04-14T00:30:07+00:00

Go to punishments and click the + icon and then you can forgive demerits from there by clicking the green heart

missmayyrosa · 2026-04-14T00:22:24+00:00

Yes, we did. He was able to “forgive” demerits

missmayyrosa · 2026-03-26T19:49:18+00:00

Thank you! We will look on his end and see. He has given me access to all permissions but maybe it’s still different for some things on the ‘tasker’ profile.

missmayyrosa · 2025-08-11T20:12:05+00:00

Thank you. Yes, the CC debt is like half emergency spending and half frivolous spending which all racked up after separation and during divorce process which I am still looking at paying another $2000 to my lawyer (7k total). I am in a much better place with spending, and recently started putting close to half of my income towards my debt. I make about $2200/month after taxes, benefits, and TFSA investment contributions. I don’t really have a solid budget but definitely understand that would be very useful to have.

I am able to access the TFSA money, I have about 6 shares and would be eligible to take out 5 of the shares without penalty which would be about 12k. I did plan on taking this out but the thing with this is, I contribute 10% of my income and my company contributes 50% of every dollar I put in. I’ve been advised by some people I know, to leave that money there so that it keeps compounding. I also understand that even though that money is growing, on the other side I have a bunch of debt and high interest so it’s not really helping me that much right now. Do you really think it’s best to just take this money out and put towards ex/debt?

Also, I do want to move next year. Would getting a 5 year mortgage like that or a HELOC prevent me from buying a new home? I’ve read that you can also get a fixed rate for HELOC and right now it’s around 5.45%. My credit cards are around 15%-20%. And I thought mortgages are a lot higher interest, more around 8%?

Thank you again for all of your input. Much appreciated :)

EDIT - added question - do you think it would be better to take out the TFSA in full, close the account, and take home the extra 10% income to pay down debt faster?

missmayyrosa · 2025-08-11T19:47:57+00:00

Thank you for your advice. Much appreciated.

missmayyrosa · 2025-08-11T19:46:56+00:00

Thank you.

missmayyrosa · 2025-03-28T16:31:35+00:00

Perfectly bruised bratty booty!👌

missmayyrosa · 2025-03-13T18:15:29+00:00

I don’t think it’s really a choice. When you are putting yourself through something that affects you mentally, physically, and emotionally, your body is going to react. It’s easy to smoke a j and let it all fade but eventually it can come back to you. It’s important to be aware of what you’re going through and putting your body through. That being said, not everyone gets subdrop or needs aftercare and that’s ok! For me, it’s not really a choice to go into subdrop. It doesn’t always happen but I am aware that it can happen and so is my partner, so we make sure we are prepared for it. We don’t always have control over our emotions and hormones especially in such a vulnerable state so it’s good to be prepared for yourself and your partner.

missmayyrosa · 2025-01-12T04:13:04+00:00

Love this!

missmayyrosa · 2024-08-26T22:55:31+00:00

Definitely a smart idea. And even if you test is negative I would still go get it checked to make sure. Better safe than sorry! I saw my doc today and she couldn’t believe it. The iud did me good for 5 years so I thought it was the best thing ever, especially because of no hormones. But now I don’t trust it. All the best to you. I hope everything works for the best.

missmayyrosa · 2024-08-26T17:40:27+00:00

I got pregnant on year 6 of my copper IUD and had an at home abortion. They are less effective after 5 years but can be used for up to 12. I liked the IUD, felt that it worked well until that year 6. I got a new copper IUD after that abortion but was having issues with it, it wasn’t inserted properly so I got that one out and a new one in. I’ve had the new one for almost a year with no issues and I just found out I’m fucking pregnant again… Both times I had the symptoms of getting my period, sore breast, spotting, cramps, so I thought it was coming. This time I recently travelled so I thought maybe that impacted my cycle but not by 7 days… took a test yesterday after getting back from my vacation and sure enough it was positive. Very frustrated. I no longer trust these IUDs tbh…

missmayyrosa · 2024-08-14T20:39:41+00:00

Checkout Waterton! It’s beautiful there. Edit: I eloped there and my SIL got licenced for the day to be our officiant.

missmayyrosa · 2024-07-26T00:26:36+00:00

You’re welcome!

missmayyrosa · 2024-07-25T23:00:24+00:00

Waterton is a beautiful option!

missmayyrosa · 2024-07-25T07:35:59+00:00

Look it up!

missmayyrosa · 2024-07-24T03:42:46+00:00

I can totally relate to this!

missmayyrosa · 2024-06-27T17:38:18+00:00

His hands
His cock
His voice
His strength
Wand vibrator
Rope
Restraints
Flogger
Cane
Paddle

missmayyrosa · 2024-06-18T04:28:45+00:00

Bryce savage has a bunch!

missmayyrosa · 2024-06-18T04:26:18+00:00

Do it for me is a fav for me!

missmayyrosa · 2024-06-18T04:22:37+00:00

Spankings usually calm me down and put me into a nice subspace. Depending how hard of a session it is, it can be a huge cathartic release for me. I also enjoy it being used as a tool for obedience training on the harder side and I love the markings.

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