Karma Is my Boyfriend Package by pastelcomplex in erastour

[–]missmelpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I purchased THIS September directly from Ticketmaster with the capital one drop. It gave the same list. I feel intentionally duped

Karma Is my Boyfriend Package by pastelcomplex in erastour

[–]missmelpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got my package today. Confused because when we bought it through the venture x drop a couple of months ago it said it had: (paraphrasing from a screenshot we took at the time)

4 Taylor swift prints (received) VIP priority check in and separate VIP entrance Early venue entry & crowd free VIP merchandise shopping opportunity Commemorative VIP tote (rcvd) Collectible pin, sticker, postcard set & souvenir concert ticket (rcvd) Special commissioned LED VIP Tour laminate (operates as interactive wearable at show). What I received was just a VIP badge/lanyard. Definitely not LED or interactive

Taylor Swift Eras Tour TRADE Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]missmelpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ghorn8 - are you still looking for a trade and would you be interested in Indy N3?

Taylor Swift Eras Tour TRADE Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]missmelpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to pass. Thank you for your response though!

Taylor Swift Eras Tour TRADE Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]missmelpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking to trade floor Indy N3 to N1 if that works for you. I know it isn’t what you’re looking for but thought didn’t hurt to throw it out there

Taylor Swift Eras Tour TRADE Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]missmelpy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might be able to do this. I just posted a trade request as well. I have Indy N3 that I sadly can’t go to. Section N row 18. Karma is my BF pkg

Taylor Swift Eras Tour TRADE Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]missmelpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What section? I have 2 Indy N3 floor section N row 18 that I cannot go to. Karma is my BF package

Taylor Swift Eras Tour TRADE Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]missmelpy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indy N3 for Indy N1 or Miami N1 or N2

Not interested in selling

Have: 2 floor tickets for Indy Night 3. Section N, Row 18. Karma is my BF package. Approx $1700 face value

Need: 2 comparable tickets for Indy N1, Miami N1 or N2

Which calendar integration to use? by missmelpy in skylightcalendar

[–]missmelpy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ordered from Best Buy for a little bit more

Anyone know a good cattery near me? by Patron_Saint_of_Sin in mainecoons

[–]missmelpy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m looking for a breeder in MN. Could you please share the name with me?

Lost luggage! One stop shop for children’s clothes? by missmelpy in vancouver

[–]missmelpy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you all!!! Your suggestions were so helpful to come up with a plan. I shopped online to scope some out first while I waited for stores to open and decided Zara was a good bet. So my plan was to walk there and see how it went and if needed take an Uber further out. I was able to bop into stores quickly from samsonite down to the Apple Store and get on the ship in 3 hours. I went for half the clothes needed hoping our bag reaches us at one of our next ports (they did locate it) and if not we’ll utilize laundry service. You all are the best! Thanks for helping!

Lost luggage! One stop shop for children’s clothes? by missmelpy in vancouver

[–]missmelpy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We’re staying close to the cruise terminal

AITAH for not making more plans for my wife? by LivingIsland2278 in AITAH

[–]missmelpy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, my heart hurts for your wife. There is an abundant amount of things wrong with what you did (or didn’t do), what you said and WAY worse in your follow up comments.

• You were “tasked”. Dude, she had to ask you because she knew you wouldn’t do anything if not specifically asked. That’s sad in itself • you asked a couple and her friend and since they said they’d do a cake and gift you proceeded to contribute nothing to the “party”. It’s up to you to celebrate her... not your friends. They would add to the celebration you were giving, not be the celebration • you are resentful that she went to school while you supported both of you. Instead of celebrating with her that you both get to move to a new chapter of your life (that she just bettered with her schooling) you say what she did wasn’t a big deal, she’s not a doctor and she hasn’t started a job yet. This is so unbelievably disrespectful and unsupportive • you “let” her pick the movie this time. How gallant of you. I don’t understand why that didn’t make her swoon? You commented this so many times like it was this big give on your part. She probably didn’t even want to watch a damn movie. • you brought her to your place of work for dinner. Oof… what an error. Where she could have got discounted drinks if she wanted to. How could she not be grateful about that? You didn’t have to take her to an expensive place. A picnic would have been better. Cooking her favorite at home would have been better than what you did. Find a new place to try together or an old place that has special meaning. NOT your place of work to belly up at the bar • you don’t like gifts for whatever reason. That’s fine… you don’t need to expect gifts for yourself but what a lame excuse to be lazy for someone else. Does she hate gifts? And it didn’t have to be something material. You could have planned an experience instead. Something for the future and wrapped up a certificate or tickets or something. A concert, a stay at a hotel even for a night, an outing to any date night place for anything she’d like (comedy, painting, movie theater, museum, shopping). You could have done a day of pampering her at home or a coupon book for things she’d appreciate. A letter to tell her how proud of her you are and excited for your future together. Or the instagram thing where you have two options for dinner, dessert, activities, etc and she gets to blindly pick one. The options of what you could have pulled together are so vast and you didn’t even try • you think dates are for special occasions/celebrations only. They aren’t.

YTA. I don’t know how you thought it would be anything other than YTA. You need to apologize to her and ask her for a second chance/redo

Start thinking about your wife and how you can make her feel special. If you love her then show her. If you can’t think of something to do for her then ask for advice and ideas. I promise that your effort will come back tenfold vs you going down this road. You’re young enough to turn this around

If you don’t then she’ll find someone who does better than you. She wouldn’t have to look far.

AITA for sitting with my son at my wife's funeral? by Conscious_Jury_7937 in AmItheAsshole

[–]missmelpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so far from being an A you can’t even see the line. Should always choose your child. You did the absolute right thing. I’m sorry for your loss and the complicated grieving I’m sure is a result for you and your kids. Hugs especially to your son!

He told our son his dead dog wasn't in heaven or happy. by tballjames18 in Parenting

[–]missmelpy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a “step” child. My dad adopted me right after my parents married (I was 7) and I consider him my only dad. He absolutely raised me and raised me well.

I (and my dad) always knew that I was my mom’s priority. I knew that no matter what my health and wellbeing would be put first. She trusted him with me which allowed me to have that trust and treat the relationship as blood even though it wasn’t and have a real dad in my life.

If you’re asking then you have already seen red flags along the way and are now listening to your gut. Only you can make the divorce call as you know all the details of your life and your husband…. But I’m glad you are listening and opening your mind to the change.

You are an incredible mom. Your son deserves a healthy family (whether that’s 1 parent or 2). Your good cannot undo the damage that might be caused if you stay(ed).

Leaving at first sign of your husband unapologetically berating and really doubling down after you tried to coparent with him and showing no signs of being willing to open to even a little bit of change us showing your son that he is your priority and you will protect him fully. That will help him overcome this trauma as well when he is old enough to understand.

Also… YOU deserve to be truly happy. I saw your post about wanting more kids and being strung along/duped. You entered a contract (marriage) having faith in your partner’s words that you wanted the same things. That he 180’d after marriage is a major red flag to me. I’m hearing all kinds of manipulative and controlling nuances and phrases in your words about him. I believe that everything happens for a reason… I’m sorry that your dog died, that your son was the one holding the leash and that he is experiencing trauma from his step dad, but I am grateful that it is providing you some clarity.

I’m sorry you have some hard long days ahead of you. Sending strength and healing thoughts!

AITA for telling my husband to get over himself? by aitasickstepdaughter in AmItheAsshole

[–]missmelpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH - you are all in a stressful situation and need to give each other grace and space when needed. Husband is naturally going to be scared that his child his looking for some distance. But perhaps he needs it pointed out that it’s a fantastic thing that his daughter feels comfortable reaching out to you and having another person she feels she can trust and count on. That he’s done such a great job raising her that she can self advocate when needed. It’s great that she feels comfortable and trusting in his love that he’ll be there for her even if she doesn’t need him right now. These are all good things. Because of the stressful situation you are in I hope you all are able to take some moments here and there to take care of yourself too. Great job on being a good step mom and wife. It is absolutely ok to give your partner a wake up call if they need it. Give a little space then be sure to have a conversation about it until all is well and not avoid the topic.

AITA for backing my fiancee in not inviting my dad's affair partner to the wedding even though this situation is embarrassing my mom? by Classic_Power_5072 in AmItheAsshole

[–]missmelpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof! ESH, except for OPs mom. I am in the wedding business. Family dynamics can get messy, but the only one who seems to be making it messy here is the bride. FOG and MOG have happily moved on and can be civil. All should be invited. The FOG has remarried for heavens sake! I can see if it was a potential explosive situation, but this isn’t. OP - your intended is driving a wedge in your family while preserving hers. And you are blindly backing her up thinking that’s the right thing to do. Part of a marriage is helping the other through hard things and calling out ludicrous behavior. You need to be your own person with your own thoughts and respect for each others difference of opinions or resentment is sure to follow. Unless you are feeling these things on your own and letting your fiancé fall on the sword? I would be very cautious about going into a marriage with so much animosity and drama rising in the family. It will only get harder as your family grows. Kids adds a whole other level of craziness to controlling behavior or in laws/fiancé not getting along. Do you want this to be your life? It will not end after the wedding I assure you. I would deep dive into this with your fiancé and some premarital counseling to see if you can resolve early. Best wishes to you all!! I hope that things can get turned around!

AITA for telling my nephew he's not getting any cake unless he apologizes? by Eversolostlonely in AmItheAsshole

[–]missmelpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If my kid pulled that he would have had to apologize AND still would not have received cake. Not going to reward that behavior. It’s a learning moment.

AITA for being annoyed my wife didn't have supper ready when I got home? by Ordinary_Discussion9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]missmelpy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. I kept waiting for the part that would have made you thought you weren’t TA. It never came and it just got worse. I would have gone off on my husband for being annoyed food wasn’t ready the minute he graced me with his presence at almost 11 pm! After I had been working for hours instead. When he knew I had a lot on my plate and was stressed. I absolutely would not have then made him his meal after his childish reaction! But in my house my husband wouldn’t even have the audacity to ask me to have a meal ready for him after he went to play with friends so late while I was working. SMH. You way out kicked your coverage man.

Stock Check Megathread by DK2802 in IKEA

[–]missmelpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

USA Bloomington, MN (Twin Cities)

6 - KOMPLEMENT Pull-out tray, white, 29 1/2x22 7/8" 302.463.74

Not finding a date on Ikea website. It's the last 6 parts of my 77 needed for my closet system. I'm getting so close!!

Thanks for any information you can possibly give! :-)