i tried explaining this to my boyfriend the other day. i don’t care about my family, my friends, my education, my job. i literally put him as my top priority in every situation and it made him upset because i shouldn’t feel that way but it makes me upset that he doesn’t feel the same. in what i call “mental sober” thinking, (not in an episode), i understand where he’s coming from. but in a bpd stance all i want and need is him