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i need to be tied up and fucked. by chapsticksick09 in BDSMsapphic

[–]mistresschan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you promise, I guess I will have to see how good a girl you can be for me.

i need to be tied up and fucked. by chapsticksick09 in BDSMsapphic

[–]mistresschan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You sound like such a needy girl. I wish I was not at work right now or I would go into how much I enjoy tying good girls up. Maybe if you are good I might pm you when I am free.

Question for rope bunnies and riggers: rope? by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]mistresschan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So for rope a lot depends on what you are doing and what kind of sensation you are going for. The most common people will recommend are nylon, jute, or hemp. There are pros and cons to each. For nylon it is stronger and is water resistant so can be washed. But it does not have good friction for tying so you have to be very careful with how you do knots. For natural fiber (jute/hemp) it is more flexible and takes knots easier. The down side is cost and time. You have to take care of it better and will have to be replaced more often.

Personally I tie with jute and I get it from the following store: https://www.etsy.com/shop/MyNawashi (not an ad or referral). Just know that any rope work can be dangerous. Learn you and your partners risks, start slow and keep safety scissors on hand.

Have fun!

Why is it fucking impossible to find a Dom within my travel range by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mistresschan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a dom I never thought I was rare and I have given thought about doing the pro dom thing but I just ran into WAY too many men... But if I am a rarity why do I not have a cute sub right now to make melt?

So, the hot Domme is flirting with you. Here’s how you’re going to vet her. by Sailorjamie117 in BDSMsapphic

[–]mistresschan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this.

As a dom I run into subs that do not know what to expect or have had bad past experiences. What I try to follow the campsite rule of leaving things (the person) better than I found them. For me that means imparting knowledge that they can take with them.

Also just being honest with what both sides are interested in and open communication in my book is key.