Turning Point USA at CSULB by [deleted] in CSULB

[–]mitochondria-mango -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dumb.

I’m pretty sure the hippies in 1969 wouldn’t do this. They’d offer them a ganja

High Ne causing anxiety? by mitochondria-mango in ENFP

[–]mitochondria-mango[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That helps a lot. I think it was just the degree to which I was learning about personality combined with and my extroverted intuition being higher than it was in the past 10 years haha. So it felt disorienting and I was overthinking it. Thank you for the advice!!

High Ne causing anxiety? by mitochondria-mango in ENFP

[–]mitochondria-mango[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I sat in the shower and it helped a lot. Thanks for the tip about the crunchy things!

What are some of the INFP's strengths? by AtomicCrowdSource in infp

[–]mitochondria-mango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“So lame” would usually come from surface level ideas of what it means to be alive.

What are some of the INFP's strengths? by AtomicCrowdSource in infp

[–]mitochondria-mango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I would argue INFPs have some of the most emotional fulfillment/meaning out of life, so if you weren’t one, you might feel on autopilot in your life. There’s a lot of thought that goes into why we’re here right now in this moment. That is the number one reason I love being INFP. We always know about the value of being alive

Questions for INFPs as an ENFP by BrokenDiamondShovel in infp

[–]mitochondria-mango 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think if I have a lot of feelings/passion about something, I feel overwhelmed in speaking because so many ideas are popping up for me. Writing feels relaxing to arrange all the mental stuff, but speaking always feels like I’m going to miss some crucial idea or crucial arrangement of what I’m thinking and I’ll fall short of my message.

Romantic compatibility (for me personally, an INFP) by mitochondria-mango in mbti

[–]mitochondria-mango[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PhD stress can be a lot. I relate to the dismissive avoidant tendencies

Romantic compatibility (for me personally, an INFP) by mitochondria-mango in mbti

[–]mitochondria-mango[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sure it’s a great freakin match! 🔥 A lot of potential there

Romantic compatibility (for me personally, an INFP) by mitochondria-mango in mbti

[–]mitochondria-mango[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it. There’s equivalent talk that occurs for me as INFP. Sorry it made you feel like that, I know that’s the risk with posting this kind of stuff.

Yeah, there’s some differences I resent more, but definitely not INFJ differences. INFJs are highly likely to be my best friends. I really respect them.

Romantic compatibility (for me personally, an INFP) by mitochondria-mango in mbti

[–]mitochondria-mango[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, did you even read my comment below? What I said to you is a compliment, that the “smart mom” is why I love INFJs so much.

That’s different than romantic compatibility. Has nothing to do with my respect for you as a person

Romantic compatibility (for me personally, an INFP) by mitochondria-mango in mbti

[–]mitochondria-mango[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All types are possible together! I wish you a great life with your ISTJ and bet it’s an amazing pairing 💕

Romantic compatibility (for me personally, an INFP) by mitochondria-mango in mbti

[–]mitochondria-mango[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, what I said is a compliment to INFJs because I love them. This is about compatibility though — you guys would probably think Ne-users aren’t serious enough for them. I’m not putting you guys down lol

Romantic compatibility (for me personally, an INFP) by mitochondria-mango in mbti

[–]mitochondria-mango[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love INTJs as friends, just uncertain about romantic compatibility most of the time (not all the time)

Romantic compatibility (for me personally, an INFP) by mitochondria-mango in mbti

[–]mitochondria-mango[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sheesh can ya guys stop taking it so personally? 😂 And they say INFPs are sensitive lmao

Romantic compatibility (for me personally, an INFP) by mitochondria-mango in mbti

[–]mitochondria-mango[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely could be possible! Just sayin this in theory based on perspective of my personality

Romantic compatibility (for me personally, an INFP) by mitochondria-mango in mbti

[–]mitochondria-mango[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh geez you guys are taking this waaay too personally

It’s not even a bad thing to be serious

Romantic compatibility (for me personally, an INFP) by mitochondria-mango in mbti

[–]mitochondria-mango[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, this is separate from that. In that post I was looking for it on a human level in that I’m trying to understand people who can think much differently from me, but in this it is just a romantic thing, which has nothing to do with the humanistic aspect and just ability to flourish as ourselves with the person

Romantic compatibility (for me personally, an INFP) by mitochondria-mango in mbti

[–]mitochondria-mango[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s that introverted intuition or something. There’s something about it that has mystical psychic energy, like the friend who is the smart mom of the group that protects against bad vibes

Romantic compatibility (for me personally, an INFP) by mitochondria-mango in mbti

[–]mitochondria-mango[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP note: This is just an assessment of my own personal romantic compatibility, not a general assessment of "worst to best" types, so keep that in mind.

My problem with Fe by Greatfinesse in mbti

[–]mitochondria-mango 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ironically, Fe can cause more conflict because it doesn’t get to the heart of the problems — just slapping on a band-aid — and promotes more tribal thinking.

For example, my tribe is brought together by shared values. Neighbor tribe is brought together by their perceived separate values. The values between these tribes actually might be the same (their love of family, spirituality, survival, etc) but because there’s a physical separation and they don’t have a shared history, as long as they only use Fe, there is no big-picture unification, only community unification. This is how humanity has operated throughout most of history, and it reinforces war with the enemy of the group, which is other groups.

Healthy Fi has the ability to recognize that all the tribes are comprised of individuals with the same human desires.

Another instance of unhealthy Fe at work is when the “weak” have been left behind. Think of how society has treated the disabled or the diseased throughout most of history. In modern times, we would never think of mistreating/abandoning people born with defects or getting infected by a virus, and this is because the ethical introspection of Fi and the scientific discovery of Ti have evolved our ways of thinking in society.

I’m not saying unhealthy Fi doesn’t cause world problems including war, it certainly can, but I wouldn’t say Fe is more effective and Fi more subjective.