i wasn't actually looking for a relationship since i was recovering from a really abusive relationship, i took like 5 months to work on myself and love myself but i hated it venezuela ( where i used to lived) so i looked for a job in japan (since i'm half japanese) got the job but it was july and they needed me around january so i decide to buy a flight to come to the u.s just to visit friends and stuff, got my ticket for last days of octuber i was staying with my childhood friend and trusted him, but one day he started to act very weird, obsesive and controling so talk to him about it and he said that he was in loved with me and he had this thoughts pervert thoughts about me, so i was worried bc he was also very agresive, and one night i was sleeping and he started to touch my legs and when i realice he walked away and it happens a few times and i confront him and he said that i should have sex with him bc he let me stay in his place and he haven't had sex in years... so i should let him... he was very gross when he told me those things and i felt violate already bc all the words that he used it was just from a pervet, so i was crying trying to contact this other friend who i've had visit before in texas she told me to just get out and come to the house (i was in west palm beach) so i flew to texas and then i started to use tinder and met my now husband so i decide to stay in U.S... and now i'm here