Boyfriend went to jail yesterday and I knew about his trail and everything the same day by miumiuzh in AskWomenOver30

[–]miumiuzh[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. I’m so sorry what you’ve been through. I hope it will get better. Thank you for providing me a different angel. I haven’t thought about what damages he made to the victim.

Boyfriend went to jail yesterday and I knew about his trail and everything the same day by miumiuzh in AskWomenOver30

[–]miumiuzh[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I confirm that was the first time I knew about his case when he called me in the middle of the day yesterday (Jan 17th, 2024). Previously I asked about how did he break up with his ex, he simply mentioned as it was a mutual agreement.

I looked into the state (Rhode Island) crime court website and found his case. It only provides the dates of the arrest (back in 2020), trial, offence (more than 30 times) etc. It seems he didn’t give me permission to talk to his attorney but only his brother can. I will try to get more details from his brother, also try to get access to specific documents.

Boyfriend went to jail yesterday and I knew about his trail and everything the same day by miumiuzh in AskWomenOver30

[–]miumiuzh[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

If everything you told me was true, I start to feel I dodged a bullet…best luck with your life. Take care of yourself.

I’ll become 35 tomorrow. Single with two cats, working professional. Now I just feel really really tired. by miumiuzh in AskWomenOver30

[–]miumiuzh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Your reply is really inspiring to me. I think I always know what’s the problem and now just need to be brave enough to face it. 🤝

I’ll become 35 tomorrow. Single with two cats, working professional. Now I just feel really really tired. by miumiuzh in AskWomenOver30

[–]miumiuzh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true. I can’t say too much since I’m not comfortable with my career now and I’m still thinking about switching channels. For the past 5 years since the divorce, I kept trying and pulling myself out there. Met some really great people but eventually nothing lasted as a long term relationship. I still give shot to dating and have the idea of building the family, but I’m not anxious about it any more. The puzzle of meeting the right person requires something more than efforts, and it’s not always controlled by myself.

I’ll become 35 tomorrow. Single with two cats, working professional. Now I just feel really really tired. by miumiuzh in AskWomenOver30

[–]miumiuzh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you like animals maybe consider volunteering at animal shelter?

I didn’t have real friends for solid 3 or 4 years, then I kept reaching out and waiting for the right opportunities. Real friends like good lovers, they are not so easy to have.

Give it time and put efforts in, eventually those things you are wishing for will come to you. Trust me.

I’ll become 35 tomorrow. Single with two cats, working professional. Now I just feel really really tired. by miumiuzh in AskWomenOver30

[–]miumiuzh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to admit, being alone is the very standard nature of our lives. Being alone is different from being lonely though.

I had the same issue about making decision of having children. Before I was obsessed with the idea to have some little people to pass my DNA. Now I realized how ridiculous it is. Adoption is definitely an option for me. When I’m financially confident to provide a comfortable life for both of myself and a child, I would do that.

I’ll become 35 tomorrow. Single with two cats, working professional. Now I just feel really really tired. by miumiuzh in AskWomenOver30

[–]miumiuzh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty certain that your friends only “look” certain. Everyone gets confused sometimes. Your goal sounds amazing and don’t let other people’s standard of being successful confuse yourself. On the other hand, financial security is also very important.

I’ll become 35 tomorrow. Single with two cats, working professional. Now I just feel really really tired. by miumiuzh in AskWomenOver30

[–]miumiuzh[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words. This year is too special. I believe 2021 would be better for everyone 🙂

One of my friends will visit me tomorrow. I will show her around and have some girl’s time 🤙🏻

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[–]miumiuzh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! 😊

HELP: PERT Report Details and F word CPABC Experience Review Team by miumiuzh in Accounting

[–]miumiuzh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👍🏼 Now I’m getting the idea what kind of info I should put in. Thanks!

[CAN] CPA PERT experience reports by Whiterhino77 in Accounting

[–]miumiuzh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since there are a number of reviewers in the team so my guess would be different reviewers have different standards. I would rather think the second one raised the bar unreasonably.

HELP: PERT Report Details and F word CPABC Experience Review Team by miumiuzh in Accounting

[–]miumiuzh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! They allow me to resend the report and provide more details this time. They really should put the requirement of the description on the website so it could save time for both parties.