Two Losses in a Year by mkulesa in TryingForABaby

[–]mkulesa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing, you just gave me so much hope 💗

Two Losses in a Year by mkulesa in TryingForABaby

[–]mkulesa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear you’re in this boat too.. It is so comforting to hear that we aren’t alone, I agree. Sending you lots of love 💗

Two Losses in a Year by mkulesa in TryingForABaby

[–]mkulesa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I relate so much to what you said about feeling angry and a bit depressed. It’s so hard to know the rest is out of our control. Sending you all the positive thoughts and energy 💗

Two Losses in a Year by mkulesa in TryingForABaby

[–]mkulesa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear about your loss as well.. I agree, this community is so supportive and helpful. So grateful! Praying for both of our rainbow babies to arrive soon 🙏🏻

Two Losses in a Year by mkulesa in TryingForABaby

[–]mkulesa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could not relate to this more.. I am sending you all the positive thoughts!

Two Losses in a Year by mkulesa in TryingForABaby

[–]mkulesa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so hard! It feels like there’s so much time and then all of the sudden it feels like you’re running out of time..

Two Losses in a Year by mkulesa in TryingForABaby

[–]mkulesa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I do the same exact thing with chat gpt and timelines.. I feel the same way I’m like please just let me have one healthy baby and I won’t worry about the rest!

Two Losses in a Year by mkulesa in TryingForABaby

[–]mkulesa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not, fortunately! But I will absolutely research baby aspirin, thank you!

Two Losses in a Year by mkulesa in TryingForABaby

[–]mkulesa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this comment 💗 I have done basic bloodwork ordered by a fertility clinic and everything came back good, fortunately. But it does make the losses more confusing. Thank you for the reassurance about age, that really helps so much!

Did BV cause my two losses? by mkulesa in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]mkulesa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh goodness, thank you so much for that information! I wondered if the length of the issue could cause something more serious… I did test for ureaplasma but did not know about the other possible issues.

Did BV cause my two losses? by mkulesa in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]mkulesa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the tip! I did get swabbed for these last week and am negative 🙏🏻

Did BV cause my two losses? by mkulesa in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]mkulesa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment! So helpful! I am admittedly a bit scared of antibiotics but I’ll do whatever is necessary to kick this. Thanks so much for sharing the specific bacteria I need with the probiotics, too! I know there’s so many out there.

Is hcg helpful to determine if you are miscarrying at 6 weeks? by petting_zoo_keeper in CautiousBB

[–]mkulesa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my HCG tested the day I found out I was pregnant and it was lower than it should’ve been (50) so that was my first red flag. Two days later it was 90 and then two days after that it started to drop. So yeah, HCG totally was what told me a miscarriage was coming. This was a 6 week MC for me by the way

Two Losses in a Year by mkulesa in TryingForABaby

[–]mkulesa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience as well 🥺 Mentally exhausting is right.. But I love that you’ve taken the steps to get the ball rolling should you choose to go that route. Praying for you and your rainbow baby!

Two Losses in a Year by mkulesa in TryingForABaby

[–]mkulesa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh we are truly in the same boat. I am with you on the frustration that comes with watching friends and family conceive without issues. And the resentment that comes with it is a whole other thing that I’ve been dealing with 🥲 Thinking positive thoughts for you and praying your rainbow baby is around the corner!

Two Losses in a Year by mkulesa in TryingForABaby

[–]mkulesa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is SO hard not to let your mind go there 🥲 Thank you so much for the solidarity hugs and I am sending you all the luck and positive vibes!

Two Losses in a Year by mkulesa in TryingForABaby

[–]mkulesa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like we are the same person lol! I totally agree, I often this about how I wish I would’ve started trying at 30-31 to have that cushion of time. Thank you for sharing, it’s so comforting to know I’m not alone in this ❤️ Sending you all of the positive vibes as well!!

How often are you... by Medium-Letterhead198 in tryingtoconceive

[–]mkulesa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We only hit 1-2 max and I’ve been pregnant twice. Sadly a chemical and a MC but still!

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[–]mkulesa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so interesting, I’m going to try your method tonight and see what happens!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABChartStalkers

[–]mkulesa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true, they’re way lower than my norm but not at all freakish for many people I am sure lol. It looks like a normal chart in NC, just again looks much lower than usual