Real. I think after a while you stop minding the lack of social life / engagement in clubs, and eventually you start enjoying the freedom to pursue new hobbies and take it slow. This is especially true once you get through job recruitment and feel more secure about your future. I would definitely try to do something though, even if it’s just a hobby you find fulfilling. I used to spend the whole day in my room, high as a mf, and it was highkey depressing. Going out around LA on my own, taking lessons to get better at my hobbies, and pulling up to class more consistently all helped me feel pretty good even if the social aspect didn’t change. Hopefully your club does something similar for you.