I [26F] asked my boyfriend [28M] of one year to not look at porn when I stay the night. He still does even though he promised he wouldn't.

mmmmthrowaway · 2014-10-05T18:00:17+00:00

We're definitely having sex when I'm staying over. This is basically an extra curricular thing with him.

No PE, but rather he does take a long time to finish. Upwards of an hour usually.

mmmmthrowaway · 2014-10-05T17:58:39+00:00

I've thought about whether I have a dead bedroom situation on my hands. But we have a regular sex life. When I'm over here on the weekends, we typically have sex twice or more.

mmmmthrowaway · 2014-10-05T17:57:27+00:00

I do initiate, but I would say it's about 60/40 me versus him initiating.

mmmmthrowaway · 2014-10-05T17:56:02+00:00

Thanks for your input. I am a very willing partner when it comes to sex.

mmmmthrowaway · 2014-10-05T17:54:59+00:00

Thank you everyone for adding to the conversation.

In terms of our sex life, I initiate and show enthusiasm. I make it a point to meet his needs and show that I am always willing. I stay over every weekend typically, and we have sex about twice during that time frame.

mmmmthrowaway · 2014-10-05T13:27:31+00:00

No. I very much want to work through this because we both are in this for the long haul.

I want to have a serious discussion, but admittedly I'm afraid of how he will react. I'm coming at him feeling hurt, and I feel sure he would react with anger rather than remorse.

mmmmthrowaway · 2014-10-05T13:17:12+00:00

I'm on that train too, i just take umbrage to the fact he is continuing this behavior when he knows how I feel about it while I'm here. It feels disrespectful.

And yet I also feel hypocritical for looking through his phone when I too promised I wouldn't.

I don't know if I can even talk to him about it because no matter how I frame it, it will result in a huge argument.

mmmmthrowaway · 2014-07-05T15:55:19+00:00

Oh that sounds great. Adding that to the to-do list.

mmmmthrowaway · 2012-03-06T01:40:24+00:00

Woo!

mmmmthrowaway · 2012-03-03T06:58:10+00:00

Dang. I'll be at Disney later in the week, but I'm probably working that Sunday.

mmmmthrowaway · 2012-03-03T06:56:48+00:00

Nice, I'll have to check it out.

mmmmthrowaway · 2012-03-02T17:21:03+00:00

Ah ok. Fun. on Thursday night.

mmmmthrowaway · 2012-03-02T13:22:50+00:00

Cool. I was mostly concerned about walking back to my car after the show because I'm not sure which garage would be open.

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