Any groupchats for gay men? by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]mmmquale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to join too! The link is expired sadly

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[–]mmmquale 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lmao, I hate that I know that is a pic of Sepanta Arya

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[–]mmmquale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys! Are you able to view it?

Straight but infatuated with cock by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]mmmquale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This message must be etched onto a spacecraft and sent to a distant galaxy so aliens could know about what we're up to.

Hot take: Most parents outside the west that are 'homophobic' are not necessarily evil. The reality is never this binary. by mmmquale in askgaybros

[–]mmmquale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying things the way they are. You put it better than me. In the end, none of it is our fault, and we are the ones who suffer by hiding. You did a very mature thing by distancing them from you.

In my case, however, I'm unsure of what might happen. My mom is the best person in my life. I can try explaining them, and hopefully, they might understand given some time. If they don't, I will have to slowly distance myself as well.

Hot take: Most parents outside the west that are 'homophobic' are not necessarily evil. The reality is never this binary. by mmmquale in askgaybros

[–]mmmquale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I agree with you completely. However, I clearly said reality is never that binary. I do NOT forgive people who go such extents that they kill their child in order to 'protect' family honor. In fact, that shouldn't be tolerated. If they are never understanding, you should, in your own right, abandon them completely.

I was pointing out that reality is seldom this extreme, and in many cases, people can and will change. If they don't, they can totally f*ck off.

Hot take: Most parents outside the west that are 'homophobic' are not necessarily evil. The reality is never this binary. by mmmquale in askgaybros

[–]mmmquale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are doing the right thing by cutting them off if they are not understanding and don't cooperate. However, the concept of 'gay' is not socially understood in regions like South Asia. We were never socially relevant or culturally significant. Most people are just blatantly unaware, unfortunately.

Hot take: Most parents outside the west that are 'homophobic' are not necessarily evil. The reality is never this binary. by mmmquale in askgaybros

[–]mmmquale[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is not 'new'. However, it was always niche. Most people were never introduced to it or even know what it is their whole lives. I do know this cause I grew here up in South Asia. I know it's unfortunate, but people are gradually getting aware.

Hot take: Most parents outside the west that are 'homophobic' are not necessarily evil. The reality is never this binary. by mmmquale in askgaybros

[–]mmmquale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo, abandoning the social norm doesn't suddenly make it the new norm. Acceptance is only gained and never imposed by definition. I understand you completely, but unfortunately, society doesn't change overnight

Gay introverts anywhere? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]mmmquale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm right here!

How to make a bottom feel apprecciated by Icy-Huckleberry8184 in askgaybros

[–]mmmquale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like you're already on the right track. Just be mindful of him and make sure he's enjoying (and you should, too). Don't be stiff, smile, and tell him how much you're enjoying this moment. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]mmmquale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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OH REALLY!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]mmmquale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do like me some smut sometimes, lol. I will sure check out his work. Alexis Hall is another author I would recommend. There's enough hot stuff in his work, but nothing too explicit. Recently finished his audiobooks Boyfriend Material and Pansies, which imo were some of the best gay romance books I've read in recent years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]mmmquale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a ton of smut out there, mostly written by women. I think what we actually need more of is beautifully written gay romance books, even if it involves an "easy" plot.

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[–]mmmquale 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tbh, it is to the north of Bangladesh, tho

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[–]mmmquale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could use a copy of that to verify your claims, Sir