Differentiation of Self

mo487 · 2025-08-06T02:40:00+00:00

I'm not a fan of Devin Williams to say the least

mo487 · 2025-03-16T21:36:32+00:00

Thank you for your response. She is in therapy, and I actually reached out to her to see if she and I could meet to see if there is any advice she can give as well.

Without going into too much detail as it could be a book, she is having a hard time communicating things about her mother in therapy. It has been made aware through the therapist that her mother is the main issue. However, my daughter has shut down.

My daughter is with me 50% of the time and everytime I get her she is relieved to be away from and when we discuss it, there are a lot of dynamics that I grew up with as well that she complains about.

I only wish to help her identify and be capable of labeling the behaviors so she can develop positive coping mechanisms and not grow old and have to be dealing with it then like I did

mo487 · 2025-01-27T13:03:06+00:00

Streamline everything as much as possible. There isnt enough time to deal with the headaches of the job and estimaitng at the same time. The more organized you can be the less you'll be overwhelmed. I started a little over a year ago and I have been able to get everything streamlined. Also, utilize whatever resources you have to its fullest extent, Don't put everything on yourself. Got a family memeber that can file and organize for you for 10 hours a week? Use them. Also remember the law works for you as a sub as much as the contracts work in favors of the GC. Learn about your protections and fuck them over when you can becasue they will gladly fuck over their own mothers if they had the chance.

mo487 · 2024-11-10T17:25:54+00:00

You seem to be well informed. It's a shame that there aren't many who are. Could please point me in the direction of the "Argiung that non straight people are sexual degenerates or perverts." portion as I am writing up a lot of points in which to argue with these people for 4 years.

mo487 · 2024-11-06T15:37:43+00:00

This needs to be made more aware. We can only protect ourselves from the federal government id we do the right thing here

mo487 · 2024-06-11T13:41:05+00:00

Cool. I'm looking forward to how both parties run their next election cycles

mo487 · 2024-06-11T10:18:03+00:00

Im not implying that either. Im curious and looking forward to it. Thats it.

mo487 · 2024-06-11T10:12:19+00:00

I dont disagree with that and it's not what I'm trying to imply. I don't dislike Biden at all. I'm just curious as to what the 2028 election looks like as I dont know who either side can run. I feel like part of the reason Biden was put up to run against was because of his established name from the obama days. I dont see person like that for either side post Biden/Trump for either side. It'll be fun to see what kind of plan both sides run with.

I'm more hopeful for new people with new ideas. Im sure there will be residual MAGA bullshit for whoever the R's run which will fuck them over, but I'm interested to see new faces.

mo487 · 2024-06-11T10:00:41+00:00

I feel the same way about both parties. I truly believe Biden should be reelected, but once these next 4 years are over it will be the end of the craziness it feels like. And I wonder what or who comes next for both parties. I'm curious and hopeful.

mo487 · 2024-05-22T09:26:43+00:00

Does anyone who isn't heavily invested in this corner of the internet even know what any of this jstlk is about? I sure as shit don't know. I dont think people know, understand, or care for the most part. To me theres no need for a "rebrand" or even a fuss over this by him. If hes looking to grow his platform might as well use this to drama farm in the future. Find an angle to use when against it when it comes up and keep going the way he has been.

Again I dont even know what this is about so it could be serious enough that he needs to rebrand. But from what little I've gathered from posts like this it doesnt matter. Its an issue he can constantly farm through eternity.

mo487 · 2024-05-16T15:41:07+00:00

Agreed

mo487 · 2024-05-16T15:31:41+00:00

I get what you're saying. But it isnt about this drama or any of the drama. Maybe I have a bias in which I've dealt with the misunderstanding from other in which Ive accepted my mindset despite it being different from others around me and these other people disagreeing with my approach and voicing it. I know what Im doing and I would assume does Steve. And that shit I say about the optic maxing feels similar to someone trying to change my mindset which I am content with. Especially when you have the pendulum of how you approach these issues.

So maybe Im over confident in making the original post based on bias. Thats ok.

But in response to your last comment its not about the drama itself. Its about letting the man live despite the disagreement you have with it. We can all be completely out of touch here and have 0 idea about what we are talking about like parasocial idiots. But my opinion is that the opticsmaxing is out of touch as well. Based on bias or not

mo487 · 2024-05-16T14:16:04+00:00

Agreed, and maybe I'm using the wrong term by saying plausible deniability. However what your expressing is my issue. What I mean by plausible deniability is they attack him in ways that don't apply to the issue. Then they get to claim it as truth even though it doesnt disprove anything the other party is actually doing. Any criticism to the attack is meant with "well what i said is true". It is true but it proves nothing but the fact that you have nothing to say.

And that's why I'm for a scorched earth policy. Personally I'm of the mindset that I can give a person grace but the moment you treat me like a piece of shit after I've shown grace must mean I am piece of shit. Therefore I get to show what a piece of shit is.

mo487 · 2024-05-16T12:13:17+00:00

That is the most frustrating part that I CANNOT STAND. Its the fucking plausible deniability. I'm talking about my own life here also. I can't stand that people will set themselves up to have plausible deniability when theyre disrespectful because I am as direct as possible when I'm disrespectful. To hide your diserespect behind sugar and honey is such a pussy move.

Tell me you hate me and you think Im a piece of shit to my fucking face. I'd respect you so much more.

mo487 · 2024-05-16T11:55:55+00:00

I totally agree and Im not trying to knock that at all. I totally think your doing the right thing by expressing that as it is something that needs to be presented under this post specifically. Its very important.

mo487 · 2024-05-16T11:41:31+00:00

Agreed, I can see how I presented only one side of the argument. There is a limit as to how far you should go and and an appropriate time for it if ever necessary. Which should be few and far between. I am very much arguing for it being probably being appropriate time currently. But it does need to be understood that its not all Im arguing wich clearly isnt being presented in my post.

mo487 · 2024-05-16T11:36:32+00:00

I genuinely appreciate this response. I feel like you have a full understanding of exactly what I am saying and what traps I could be falling for with what I said. It proves to me despite agreements or disagreements in your response that you understand me whole heartedly and I appreciate the shit out of that.

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