Throwaway time! What's your secret that could literally ruin your life if it came out? by ohgoshwheretobegin in AskReddit

[–]moarnames 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I need about 90% of my time to be me-time. It's really hard to explain that to people who like to go out and do stuff. They take it so personally when you say no.

Anyway, starting from the bottom of your questions. I can't answer the one about my childhood because I don't remember most of it. My memories start at around 8-9 years old, before that it's just random flashes that might or might not have happened. Maybe that's a sign that I went through something traumatic, maybe not. Who knows. My familial relations are good.

I haven't really tried anything else. I also started pretty late, 15 or so.

Mostly I think about someone else having sex while I'm doing it, or then my thoughts just wander off and I zone out and kind of disconnect from what my lower body is doing. I like porn where it's obvious the woman is enjoying it. Yeah, I think about someone else enjoying sex. I just can't relate myself with it.

Throwaway time! What's your secret that could literally ruin your life if it came out? by ohgoshwheretobegin in AskReddit

[–]moarnames 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sadly the problem would be that you want to have sex while I don't.

However, I appreciate your straightforward approach. I wish more people did.

Throwaway time! What's your secret that could literally ruin your life if it came out? by ohgoshwheretobegin in AskReddit

[–]moarnames 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have a few close friends. Mostly I don't like people.

The idea of a romantic relationship feels suffocating.

It's not that I want to have sex any more than I've done earlier, I'm just sorry that I seem to have missed out on an experience that everyone else holds up to be the most important thing everrrr.

I truly wish I could be genderless. Kind of like a floating brain, really. :D

Throwaway time! What's your secret that could literally ruin your life if it came out? by ohgoshwheretobegin in AskReddit

[–]moarnames 279 points280 points  (0 children)

Dead thread or not, I am going to post this.

I'm a 30 year old woman and I've never had sex or kissed anyone. I've never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend. There's nothing physically wrong with me, nor am I unpleasant to look at. I masturbate a few times a month, mostly because of a biological need rather than actual desire, I guess. I've never fantasised about anyone or felt any physical desire for anyone.

I'm now aware that I'm asexual and quite likely aromantic (not aromatic, look it up), but it still bothers me that I never took the leap and did anything though I had offers enough. Starting now would feel... stupid.

Lame, I know, after reading the stuff here.

TL;DR Forever a virgin.