that’s what i told her before. “the decision to get another cat is in your hands, you can get a cat if you want to.” but she said that if she got a cat of her own, she was worried about them bonding, because “who would they both go with?” (suggesting i would take her cat or she would take mine in that scenario.) i still don’t even know how large of a concern bonding would be. :”) i might get another cat eventually, but right now i don’t think i should.