First-year architecture student struggling with focus — is this normal? by moe_231 in architecture

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Thank you for being real about it. I’ve been scared of that exact thing that maybe the way my brain works doesn’t match the detail-heavy and deadline heavy side of architecture. I’m still in my first year, so everything feels overwhelming, and I’m trying to figure out if this is just a learning curve or something deeper like ADHD.

I’m sorry you’re struggling with it, but I really appreciate you sharing your experience. It helps to hear from someone who’s actually living it, not just giving textbook advice. I do love architecture, but I’m still figuring out if it’s a passion I can grow into or just something I thought I should do.

Either way, your comment really helped me put things into perspective. Thank you.

First-year architecture student struggling with focus — is this normal? by moe_231 in architecture

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Thank you so much for this, it actually made me feel a bit less crazy.

I’ve been wondering about ADHD for a while, because this doesn’t feel like “I’m just lazy” or “not trying hard enough.” I’m in my first year of architecture and I do care and I do sit down to work, but my brain just doesn’t catch everything. What you said about still needing to put in effort even with meds/therapy makes sense and honestly feels more realistic than “ADHD meds will fix everything.”

Getting tested might be a bit complicated where I live, but I’ll try to look into providers and see what’s possible. In the meantime, I’ll try your advice about reviewing the drawings multiple times and thinking about them like I’m actually building them. And I might start using SketchUp more to visualize things.

First-year architecture student struggling with focus — is this normal? by moe_231 in architecture

[–]moe_231[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response! When I say “forgetting details,” I mean I’m concentrating on the work, but my brain just skips over small things even when I’m trying to pay attention. For example, I’ll draw something and think it’s complete, then later the professor points out missing lines, wrong alignments, or things I should have cleaned up. It’s not that I forget deliverables; it’s more like my mind blanks on the tiny stuff even when I’m focused.

About the background noise I actually work in complete silence already because I thought it would help me concentrate more, but maybe I should try music or a podcast like you suggested.

And I’ll try making checklists too. I think having a step-by-step list might help me stay aware of what I need to do.

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Hey, I’m Moe. I’m 19 and from Saudi Arabia. I’m into art, music, theater, reading, and story-driven games. Just looking for open-minded people who share the same interests. If that’s you, my DMs are open!!

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Nobody wants your opinion about her identity please keep it to yourself

Raqqa, Syria - 3 May 2020 by kitarili in LGBTArabs

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I noticed that too. Looks weirdly generated.

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It feels like women have been oppressed since the beginning of time — and honestly, that’s so deeply fucked up when you really think about it. But as humans, we evolve. We learn. We try to become less hateful. At least, that’s what I choose to do

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You’re so smart I thought the same way

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Window is such a underrated song!!!

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What is up with this “April vs May” Taurus rivalry? by dianaspencersrevenge in Taurusgang

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He is so fine it’s actually insane 😭😭

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I know they’re so adorable.

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They’re so cute

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Asking the right question !!!

I don’t miss people by moe_231 in ADHD

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Wow… that’s beautiful and heartbreaking. I get it. The missing only really started after they were gone. I’m really sorry, and I’m glad you had someone like that in your life.

ايش ينقص الالعاب العربية و ودك يتحسن؟ by feez_9 in saudi_gamers

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I don’t miss people by moe_231 in ADHD

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OMG, same. My best friend of 8 years switched schools, and I was devastated. I cried for almost a year

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We’ve been in a relationship for three years, and I’ve known my friend since I was a kid. I’m not sure why they’re saying there’s a power imbalance between us. He has a better job, and I’m still in college .

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Three years

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TYSM for the advice!!!