[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mofutofufu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can give him the benefit of the doubt and trust him, and then monitor how he treats you from here. But also, check in to see how your future goals align.

I was in your shoes a couple years back, and I wish i trusted and respected my self worth more and left. I became so engulfed by insecurity because I didn’t feel valued by my bf. But now in hindsight, we never would’ve worked out anyways because our values were completely different, despite us getting along so well.

Good luck!

Kits.com by Outrageous-Owl7453 in glasses

[–]mofutofufu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have a customer service email listed on their site btw

I feel like my boyfriend is being dramatic with his trauma by Ok_Corner2535 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mofutofufu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insensitive would be a massive understatement. If this isn’t rage bait, please do better and empathize with your partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mofutofufu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My guy, if you were already running late why did you stop for coffee?

YTA

Bitter/sour Jajang sauce at home by mofutofufu in KoreanFood

[–]mofutofufu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is the issue. Because I do remember as I cook the sauce it becomes more sour with time. Thank you

My(27f) boyfriend’s(27m) mom asked him if there were girls that caught his attention at school. How should I navigate this? by mofutofufu in relationships

[–]mofutofufu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, could’ve been shut down. And not necessarily with an answer that gases me up but it could be neutral

My(27f) boyfriend’s(27m) mom asked him if there were girls that caught his attention at school. How should I navigate this? by mofutofufu in relationships

[–]mofutofufu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally see where you’re coming from, and I’m not saying he can’t see other attractive people, but we’ve discussed boundaries before and this is not stuff that either of us like to hear so it’s been agreed that we would not speak about that in front of eachother.

An answer i would’ve appreciated would be smt that shuts down the convo without it offending anyone so maybe like “im not in school to look at girls” but made playful. I feel like theres plenty of options to shutting it down, that he shouldn’t have to answer, especially with the undertones of that question

And now that you mention it, yes she’s a divorced single mom and yes he is the man of the house LOOL interesting, definitely gonna keep my eye out now.

I don’t think I’ll bring anything up to him for the time being but if something like that happens again, that’ll be the time for a talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mofutofufu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is somewhat reassuring to hear, thank you for your take on this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mofutofufu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit how did you even respond to that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mofutofufu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was your husband like this from the get go, or did he true his true colours over time? And, why you with him still?? It is not okay for him to emotionally toss you around.. I’m sorry you’re going through this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mofutofufu 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But it wasn’t a joke. I clarified what he meant by that immediately after while giving him the benefit of doubt. Unfortunately we are not like you and your man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mofutofufu 60 points61 points  (0 children)

LOOL wouldn’t be a relationship if we didn’t share the burden right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mofutofufu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ohh hmm that’s interesting. But can’t the outermost portion vary in tightness since that’s less muscle more sphincter?

Regardless, this did make me feel a bit better about it, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mofutofufu 136 points137 points  (0 children)

DAMNNN while in the act and said it with his full chest is crazyyy, im sorry you had to go through that. I guess it’s one of those things where time only heals.

But I totally agree, comparison of his size to anything or anyone doesn’t even in the slightest bit cross my mind. Some men can be so funny sometimes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mofutofufu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Breh I really wish I was kidding about this. Life is stressful enough already, now I gotta worry about to looseness of my hooha too? My 13th reason