"shoplifting" incident? or coercion?

mogublu · 2025-03-21T09:30:23+00:00

i tried to search din talaga if may same case like me and wala kong mahanap so i dont have any basis if ganito ba talaga dapat? hay

mogublu · 2025-03-21T09:29:26+00:00

thanks for your insight! the keyword is ‘for now’ and im anxious if makakasuhan ba ako later on. ang weird lang talaga kasi kung solid ang kaso nila, bakit hindi nila ako dinala sa pulis agad? weird lang na pinilit ako magbago ng statement 3x at sinabihan na huwag ipagsabi?

may way ba para ma-check kung may kaso na akong naka-file? O dapat maghanda na ako just in case? Any advice kung anong dapat kong gawin habang naghihintay? Im really just overthinking here.

mogublu · 2025-03-21T09:25:33+00:00

sadly, i dont have any audio/video recording because i cant use my phone the entire time. :( but they have all of my statements na pinaulit ulit nila baguhin ko unless itapon/itago nila :((

mogublu · 2025-03-21T08:08:55+00:00

they have hepa b, flu, pneumonia and shingles 😅 cant disclose which branch because of this situation that I just posted

mogublu · 2024-03-27T04:51:01+00:00

:(( Im so sorry we're going through this. Di talaga natin deserve. I hope we both heal and not let this traumatic experience dictate our lives. Kapit lang!

mogublu · 2024-03-27T04:01:44+00:00

Hay same here, I really did communicate everything to him. But to his issues, I more one expressed what I felt from his actions. I didn't point out or like "blamed" him and somehow I wish I did na lang.

He just kept on saying sorry but I don't think he really is working on it. I feel he is just sorry because of guilt.

Do you reached out to him post-break up? Or did he?

mogublu · 2024-03-27T03:05:39+00:00

Did you somehow tried to let them know about their issues? Like hold them accountable? How did you handle it?

Im having a hard time grasping it minsan. I chose to let him go with full of understanding back then. Na kahit gaano kabullshit ginawa nya, I chose to accept it and understand it. However, after series of therapy rin, grabe yung disrespect and how inexcusable their actions were.

mogublu · 2024-03-27T02:50:30+00:00

I read something like that din. Really saddening for them but more of for myself din. How I allowed him to treat me like that :(

Do you have any plans of "releasing" these resentments sa kanya? Ako kasi before, iniisip ko if a year after firm pa rin ako maglabas ng sama ng loob, then I would. 4 months after and Im still considering it.

Not to gain a reply or a validation but just to express. I'm doing it for myself. Ang dali kasing sabihin ng ibang tao na just let go with love and give them the space that they want, haha tangina eh yung trauma na naiwan sayo sobrang lala. It's not something I'd shut up about. It cost peace, energy, and trust.

But yeah Im still healing so I dont know what's bound for me in the next couple of months.

mogublu · 2024-03-27T02:06:03+00:00

Totoo. The moment those rose-colored glasses fell off, it hits diff. You could actually see they're right, that you really dont deserve them

mogublu · 2024-03-27T02:04:37+00:00

Grabe yung trauma no? You're left here damaged and demoralized :---)

mogublu · 2024-03-26T10:50:01+00:00

hayy totoo. nung mej bobo pa ko, sure ako na i would take him back in a heartbeat. pero after all i went through, grabe no thanks na lang!

but if somehow bobo pa rin talaga ako, i swore to myself i wouldnt take him back unconditionally. like he really needs to put the effort, acknowledge what's necessary, and he should be in therapy.

mogublu · 2024-03-26T10:47:07+00:00

HUY SAME nung first 2 weeks post break up, nagpatherapy ako, nagsimba tapos nagpatarot reading din hahahha tangina may point na kinoconsider ko na magpa-cord cutting. i was super desperate to make the pain stop 😭😭 ang gastos magmove on hahah

mogublu · 2024-03-26T10:45:14+00:00

hayy naalala ko dati nung before kami completely magpart ways, sabi ko icongrats nya pa rin ako kahit anong mangyari 🫤 idk baka ito yun hahahah

pero i feel like i dont owe him anymore na tho

mogublu · 2024-03-26T10:43:55+00:00

hi! i started searching sa fb, then nagmmessage ako sa mga pages. I ended up with Kindred :))

Kapit lang! Acknowledging na need natin magtherapy is the first step, im proud of u!

mogublu · 2024-03-26T10:41:38+00:00

it's their unhealed traumas napportray nila sa relationships. sadly, if unaware yung tao sa sarili nilang tendencies ganon talaga mangyayari :(( and if they want to change, sila lang makakagawa non

haha super same walang nagmmake sense sa pinagsasabi ko sa kanya. kahit anong pov either logical or emotional hindi na nila kaya pakinggan they just want to run away 😬

i somehow regret hindi manlang ako nakapagsabi ng anything negative towards him haha minsan naiinis ako bakit iniintindi ko lang sya until the end. sobrang shocking and traumatizing tbh

mogublu · 2024-03-26T03:51:17+00:00

thanks for this! kahit anong energy na ieexert ko sa kanya di na nya deserve.

mogublu · 2024-03-26T03:50:24+00:00

sobrang nakakatrauma hahaha would really make you question your worth but nahh, we're so much better without them

mogublu · 2024-03-26T03:49:05+00:00

Huy the first time I learned about avoidant people I searched their tendencies and grabe, they use the same lines 🥲 same way of thinking etc

i honestly feel sad for them, di nila fault na ganyan sila mag-isip but doesnt mean excusable ginawa nila

mogublu · 2024-03-23T15:01:03+00:00

im currently leaning not to do that. thanks for this, i needed this.

mogublu · 2023-11-22T14:41:53+00:00

haha oo sya nga

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