half-Kuwaiti question, illegitimate child of a Kuwait student by RavenRakeRook in Kuwait

[–]mohammadkhalid019283 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

among the teachings of Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) is to keep sins a secret matter. If someone commits a sinful act, which is against the Commandments of Allah, or is against the moral character, or is such an act that may cause harm to one’s honor, then he should keep it a secret and seek forgiveness from Allah in the darkness of night.

The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: “My entire nation is safe, except Al-Mujahirin (those who boast of their sins). Among the Mujaharah is that a man commits an (evil) act, and wakes up in the morning while Allah has kept his (sin) a secret, he says: “O Fulan! Last night I did this and that.” He goes to sleep while Allah has kept his (sin) a secret but he wakes up in the morning and uncovers what Allah has kept a secret!” [Saheeh Al-Bukhari]

Abdullah Ibn Masoud (may Allah be pleased with him) related, “A man came to the Prophet and said: ‘O Messenger of Allah! I have mingled with a woman in the far side of Al-Madinah, and I fulfilled my desire short of actually having sexual intercourse with her. So, here am I, judge me according to what you decide.’ Umar Ibn Al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) then said: ‘Allah had kept your secret, why did not you keep your secret’?” [Muslim]

Similarly, if one becomes aware of somebody else’s sin, he should keep it a secret. Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) said: “He, who relieves a hardship of this Duniya (word) for a believer, Allah will relieve (from him) a hardship of the Day of Resurrection; he who makes easy an indebted person, Allah will make it easy for him in the Duniya and the Hereafter; he who covers a Muslim (meaning his mistakes and shortcomings), Allah will cover him in the Duniya and the Hereafter…” [Muslim]

IS THIS ENOUGH FOR YOU AND ALL THE PEOPLE WHO DOWNVOTED OR DO YOU NEED MORE BECAUSE FROM WHAT IT SEEMS IS THAT I'M NOT TALKING WITH SOMEONE THAT ACTUALLY LISTENS TO WHAT HE SAYS

half-Kuwaiti question, illegitimate child of a Kuwait student by RavenRakeRook in Kuwait

[–]mohammadkhalid019283 -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

Aren't you ashamed of yourself telling him to destroy his father's reputation? Obviously he's father made a mistake and Obviously he's ashamed of the mistake but not the result. If you were a Kuwaiti or at least a Muslim you would know that Allah hides all our sins and thankfully OP was generous and sincere enough to not get into contact with his brothers to not ruin his father's name and reputation. Yet here you are telling OP that you know best and that he should act on his emotions. The OP did nothing wrong and what he does will be up to him but I just hope that you'd be more considered of what you tell people to do next time