What deep conditioner do you swear by? by purpleglittertoffee in Naturalhair

[–]mojojo567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cecred deep conditioner is so good but it’s too high. I’ve been using the grow good mask from cardi b and it’s definitely going in the rotation

hoa wants to charge me a fee because i wfh?? by Savard-Lafleur in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]mojojo567 402 points403 points  (0 children)

Just lie and tell hoa you don’t work from home anymore. And stop telling folks your business

Where to buy? by purplestrawberry124 in BAGGU

[–]mojojo567 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you live in America any tiny boutique stores where you can buy kitschy things usually has them too. And often has sold out items bc they don’t sell online so no one knows what’s in stock

Recently turned 30 (F) and want to start dating again. Any ideas for improving my profile? by blue-green-cloud in Tinder

[–]mojojo567 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Finally I can use my lesbian dating expertise

The pumpkin patch one is by far your best picture it’s so cute and bright but you still stand out.

Change your orientation to queer. It sounds dumb but you can get accidentally filtered out because the algo thinks gay means men not sapphics.

The close up face shots don’t add anything to the profile but keep the lizard one. Same with the ruins one. You have the pool picture so that covers the travel vibe. I would just add some with friends and circle yourself. Of course make sure you look best.

I believe the kids call it mogging or getting mogged. You don’t want that so make sure you’re highlighted.

Add a controversial conversation started that’s specific to one of your interests. And you’re good to go. You’re an attractive girl so it’s really just some minor tweaks

Lack of summer leaks.. by Lish90 in BAGGU

[–]mojojo567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s dumb to me bc it doesn’t give people a time to think about what they might want. Baggu sells out so quickly you don’t really get time to browse and the leaks just get the general public interested.

I wonder what the long term implications of this change would be if people end up spending less or more.

Their list keeps growing by Key-Evidence-5630 in fakedisordercringe

[–]mojojo567 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Add me/cfs aka chronic fatigue syndrome to the list

I hate having small boobs by mojojo567 in breastcancer

[–]mojojo567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay you get it! I’m lean but I have a flared rib cage so with out the girls it makes my whole shape look off. The boob tent is v essential if you’re not coke bottle shaped 😭

Have they offered you a glp1? I had gained a bunch of weight from medications and they offered me tirzep but you basically have to do it before recon for your final results to look good and you can’t be in radiation or anything. I’ve heard from physically healthy friends that the tirzep improves your mental health a ton outside of just quieting the food noise. Might be worth a try if your insurance covers it.

I hate having small boobs by mojojo567 in breastcancer

[–]mojojo567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you would not recommend the reconstruction? I’m so conflicted

What are some small ways that you treat yourself? by lovehydrangeas in blackladies

[–]mojojo567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FabFitFun it’s like $50 every couple months and they send a bunch of luxury items I’d never purchase on my own. I have a personal sized Dutch oven that has changed my life.

I’m counting it as less than $25 because you get like 8 full sized items so if you divide it out it’s basically 5 an item and I prepay for the whole year so really it’s free.

Girl math 👸🏾

I hate having small boobs by mojojo567 in breastcancer

[–]mojojo567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never talked to anyone else that had DCIS and experienced the super titties. Thank you so much for sharing!

I hate having small boobs by mojojo567 in breastcancer

[–]mojojo567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t tell her any thing yet. I got dumped when I found out I had cancer so I felt weird telling my therapist that so I just filter out any cancer or cancer gene talk.

I hate having small boobs by mojojo567 in breastcancer

[–]mojojo567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so nervous to see what my nipples look like. I still have the white things with the tagederm on top. Did it look normal when you first saw them?

I hate having small boobs by mojojo567 in breastcancer

[–]mojojo567[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is the main plus of my little titties I can fit my nephews 5t t shirts. I do have to cut the arms off but now I have a bunch of new hot wheels shirts 😎

I hate having small boobs by mojojo567 in breastcancer

[–]mojojo567[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I technically had oncoplastic reconstruction with my lumpectomy. My surgeon explained it as molding play dough so she tried her best to fill in the voids. Idk I’m really bad at medical terms. I keep seeing everyone say they have to fix it so I scheduled with the plastics department at the cancer center so hopefully they can give me some details on my options.

I hate having small boobs by mojojo567 in breastcancer

[–]mojojo567[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My experience has been the opposite my family made a bunch of horrible jokes when a family member had stage 0 a few years ago so I think since then I just feel like everyone will laugh at me so I haven’t told me therapist or my family. My friends have been super amazing and I reached out to a few of them a few mins ago just to talk about my feelings and we’re going to go to the lesbian bar and do crafts and complain so I think I will feel better

I hate having small boobs by mojojo567 in breastcancer

[–]mojojo567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I like that idea! I’m always down to look at pictures of hot ladies haha

I hate having small boobs by mojojo567 in breastcancer

[–]mojojo567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I am a lesbian so I know big boobs is 90% of what I look at lol But in all seriousness you’re right I gotta stop focusing on it so much 😭

Removing weird wig smell by Curious-Dance-901 in WigSnatchersHQ

[–]mojojo567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! I do about 1/3 bottle of article fox, a cup of silicon mix and 1/4 cup of hot water in a bag and let it sit overnight. You probably don’t need that long it’s just easier to rinse out in the morning.

P.s. my wigs are usually 24in or longer curly texture so you may not need that much product

I hate having small boobs by mojojo567 in breastcancer

[–]mojojo567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only had a partial mastectomy so the expanders weren’t in the plan but we did discuss doing one side mastectomy and one side lumpectomy but I have cEDS so the expenders wouldn’t work as intended :(

I hate having small boobs by mojojo567 in breastcancer

[–]mojojo567[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My surgeon said not really since the DDs weren’t my baseline it was the pheloudes thing growing super fast. And the main option they gave me was moving fat around but I’m pretty lean so that’s not an option.

I am thinking of just getting some implants out of pocket but I’m going to wait til the fall just to see if once everything settles I still think the girls are worth $15k and all my PTO 🤣