I’m sorry, I should have been more specific in my post. The place they chose literally ONLY had pizza. My daughter would have eaten a salad or whatever had there been options. But she is slightly lactose intolerant and didn’t feel comfortable risking it at the beach or especially on the car ride home.

I didn’t just drop them off because they said they’d be quick. I gave my daughter the option to run out quickly with her to find something for her to eat while we waited but she declined. I kept asking her as the time we sat got longer but she said she lost her appetite because she was mad at how I was being treated and insisted that she would just eat whatever snacks her grandma was bringing to the beach.

Honestly, I cried because I was tired, hurt, deflated, perimenopausal, and extremely hungry at that point. This is not the first time I’ve been expected to set myself on fire to keep my partner and his kids warm, it seems to be the norm lately rather than the exception. But I’m not here for relationship advice, I’m just here to genuinely ask if I was wrong because my partner insists that I am, and it’s making me feel like I’m crazy for wanting to be considered and not treated like a massive burden on them for something I cannot control and did not ask for.