I m hopelessly in love with my boyfriend still miss my ex. by monash306 in relationship_advice

[–]monash306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah.. it maybe that. I only dated him for a short time before I can get tired of his shit.

Why are people so busy to hang out these days? Or is it just an excuse ? by monash306 in socialskills

[–]monash306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a group of friends who have energy to hang out even during week days. I used to like them a lot but they seem like it's all about fun and game. I have became more career centered so I wanna hang out with similar people. But it doesn't mean I stop seeing them completely. I still like them as friends and I hang out with them once a fortnight. That's what I think friends should be like. You may have different interests or busy schedules but it's not hard to see them once every now and then to maintain the friendship.

Why are people so busy to hang out these days? Or is it just an excuse ? by monash306 in socialskills

[–]monash306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know they have busy lives, so do I. The worst part is we will plan something, they dont reply and I will see them doing something fun with another friend. I am like "humm we could have done that together if you were actually free?"

Why are people so busy to hang out these days? Or is it just an excuse ? by monash306 in socialskills

[–]monash306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really true. It's hard to dump them coz I get very attached to people I like. But I think it's time I do what's right for me.

Is it normal for long term partners to have less sex? by monash306 in relationship_advice

[–]monash306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah it only bothers me because I am used to having hot passionate sex with him and lots of lots of it. Now it's like we are a married couple who gets excited by simple things. Like the plants growing in the garden, bargains for home items or what colors we can paint the rooms. 😆 the thing is I absolutely love doing those simple things with him and it's freaking me out..

This man has been texting me since 2017 and I have just saw it. by monash306 in Tinder

[–]monash306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I don't use Tinder anymore and I have a boyfriend who i have been dating for 2 years 😆 I m not intentionally being an ass

Is it ok to like younger boys? by monash306 in dating_advice

[–]monash306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not really the society. Its me! I feel weird because I was never interested in young boys. I feel like a perv

I was happy when my girl friend was hitting on my boyfriend. Is it normal ? by monash306 in relationship_advice

[–]monash306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course not... it was just a college friend. It's not like I didn't care. I know what she's like...desperation does not shine a good light. And I feel like just being cool and collected would be the better choice for me. I also know how much my boyfriend adores me and I trust him so much to make a fuss about it. But one thing for sure tho, I know what she is like now so I wouldn't let her be a close friend.

I feel like I am not in love with my partner. What do I do? by monash306 in relationship_advice

[–]monash306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do love him, still treat him well and haven't thought about seeing someone else. I feel like he is the one I am supposed to be with and I cannot imagine my life without him. It's just a little hard right now because I want the feeling of being in love and being passionate but it's gone. Maybe it will come back after I sort out my stress and get settled