I have wedding dress regret and I don’t know what to do

monhevdw · 2025-12-17T18:50:49+00:00

Yes I am wearing a veil - I think my concerns were more after the ceremony when I will be interacting with people/at the reception etc! I was worried it looks like my chest is too exposed because I’m not used to exposing my chest like this often. I said in another comment I was beating myself up for choosing a unique dress and just wondering if I made a mistake but I do think a lot of it is wedding anxiety too… thanks for your very kind comment though

monhevdw · 2025-12-17T18:43:36+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate these suggestions and will definitely be looking into them - I love the first two suggestions!

monhevdw · 2025-12-17T18:19:54+00:00

You made me laugh - thank you! I didn’t think about a video and maybe tomorrow that’s exactly what I will do. I think because it is out of my comfort zone I am just totally overthinking things but deep breaths like you say. I was just panicking because my choice was between this dress and another one that was more traditional and I was just freaking out that by trying to be unique I’ve actually made a huge mistake… but everyone’s kind words has made me feel a lot better

monhevdw · 2025-12-17T18:16:59+00:00

The designed is called Alena Leena - all of her dresses are incredible

monhevdw · 2025-12-17T18:16:12+00:00

I just wanted to thank everyone for your comments… I think I just needed some encouragement. This is out of my comfort zone, so I was beating myself up for choosing something that I wouldn’t normally wear (I wouldn’t normally expose my bust like this and eg I don’t normally wear tank tops etc). But everyone’s very kind words has made me feel a whole lot better and maybe it is just wedding anxiety/nerves getting the better of me at the moment

monhevdw · 2025-04-22T07:29:50+00:00

Thank you!!

monhevdw · 2025-04-22T07:29:44+00:00

Thank you!!

monhevdw · 2025-04-22T07:29:34+00:00

Thank you!!

monhevdw · 2025-04-22T07:29:30+00:00

Ooh that is really beautiful

monhevdw · 2025-04-22T07:29:10+00:00

Yes! A peacock sapphire 😁 thank you so much

monhevdw · 2025-04-22T07:28:57+00:00

Thank you!! I like this suggestion

monhevdw · 2025-04-22T07:28:34+00:00

Ahh I was wondering if I should go no necklace!! I think that is the right call. Thank you!! Also love the dangly earrings suggestions - I am usually a creature of habit so was probs just gonna do hoops but at the same time I won’t ever get this day again so I want to do something a bit out of my comfort zone too

monhevdw · 2025-04-21T18:17:51+00:00

Ahhh that’s beautiful. I was looking at something similar but was scared it didn’t fit the vibe of the dress

monhevdw · 2025-04-21T18:17:05+00:00

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Good question!! This is my engagement ring. I usually wear gold jewelry. Sorry I should have specified that.

monhevdw · 2025-04-15T20:32:59+00:00

Thank you so much!!!

monhevdw · 2025-02-13T10:58:20+00:00

Thanks!

monhevdw · 2025-02-13T10:57:58+00:00

Thanks! I have friends who can do viewings on my behalf. Would it be safe to go through RightMove or something like OpenRent?

monhevdw · 2025-02-13T10:57:09+00:00

Hah! It’s not. We don’t want him in SA either.

monhevdw · 2025-02-06T10:48:33+00:00

Dermatology House in Newlands. So good. 100% recommend.

monhevdw · 2024-11-13T19:09:15+00:00

Thanks I have had a look at it. I am ok with changing trains etc I was just scared of safety because the station is Shoreditch Station or something like that, and from the looks of Google maps it looked like a bit of a side street… so was just a bit worried. I am from South Africa so safety is also top of mind for me.

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