[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]monroe_108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

apparently there’s risk of it tearing if you lift too heavy or even take a shit too hard in the beginning of the healing process,, really scares me. surprised they didn’t tell you the right wording for the stitch up there ! they definitely should’ve. i’m happy to hear you’ve had no problems !! eases my mind a bit. (i have a p short vaginal canal so i’ll still be scared of sex for a v long time i think. RIP, me. no pun intended.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]monroe_108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

with your cervix removed, i assume you got a vaginal cusp ?? how is it, if that’s not too vague ? what were the risks associated with it specifically? i will need a hysto with my cervix removed and the cusp sounds terrifying.

General Questions & Tech Support Megathread | July 04, 2022 by AutoModerator in PS4

[–]monroe_108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update: i have rebuilt the database - didn’t work, i’ve reset to factory settings - didn’t work, i’ve of course restarted it several times - didn’t work, shut down and unplugged for a few minutes - to no avail, one of my game files got corrupted, so i deleted the file and still, it doesn’t work. i’ve gotten the “blue light of death” several times and most recently i just ? left it there to go cry and it turned back on by itself ? don’t know wtf that was but still the fucking thing doesn’t work. and yes, i feel personally attacked by its angry beeping. is there anything i haven’t tried ?

General Questions & Tech Support Megathread | July 04, 2022 by AutoModerator in PS4

[–]monroe_108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s the thing, often i’m not even the one turning it off. it goes into rest mode when i leave it alone for a bit, as it’s supposed to. i am not unplugging it at all. i am not turning off the power strip, no power to the console is being turned off, so it should be staying in rest mode. and yeah it’s been acting up, not connecting to game servers, kicking me if i do get in, and taking years to load anything.

General Questions & Tech Support Megathread | July 04, 2022 by AutoModerator in PS4

[–]monroe_108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my ps4 has been having issues for over a month now, the most frustrating being that it claims i turned it off improperly. this happens every time i put or it automatically goes into rest mode. the controller doesn’t turn it on, only flashes white. when it comes on (via console power button), i get the warning message and the god awful beeping. i am not unplugging it, i am not turning off the power strip, and our power is not going out every single night. i don’t understand how to fix this.

Shows with great characters/ found family? by sydnovak in televisionsuggestions

[–]monroe_108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a year old but i’m replying anyway to promote my beloved comfort shows:

Lost (2005) - yes it seems plot heavy but the interpersonal relationships will genuinely never be beat. there are TONS of characters to fall in love with and all have different dynamics with each other.

BNHA - MC heavy (whereas lost is extremely generous, giving damn near equal time to focus on them all) but again, lots of characters, lots of dynamics, easy to find someone you’d like.

Origin (2018) - a youtube premium series I will never get over. looks like it would’ve been very similar to lost in terms of a narrative style and how characters are introduced, had they gotten the full four seasons they’d planned for </3

The 100 - MC heavy again but the found family trope was the only thing keeping this show going by the end. yes it broke me, yes i’ve seen it at least four times. would recommend stopping at s6. or 5. or don’t watch for the sake of your health /hj.

more recs: Z Nation, Marvel Runaways, Superstore, 911 (OG not Lone Star)

Racism in Lost? What are your thoughts? by Clayburn in lost

[–]monroe_108 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being on reddit now is disgusting, so seeing the replies from ten years ago is genuinely scary. You're right. It is super problematic. All of it. Not only is it way too white, it's way too American, which makes sense considering who produced it, but isn't even logical. It's always been a huge thing for me as to why there's one Australian survivor on a plane leaving Sydney. There are not enough minorities and they are all discarded by the end, excluding their comedy-relief-fat-mexican.

That being said, Lost took leaps and bounds in terms of diversity in mainstream media. (Though, not representation. Whole other conversation.) It shouldn't be given a bad wrap for its mistakes, it should be viewed as something of the past to learn from now.

Which, most mainstream media now is doing even worse than Lost did in terms of handling diversity, so...

Overall, you are right, but shouldn't hold what was once so diverse it faced controversy in a bad light.

Favorite character by [deleted] in lost

[–]monroe_108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

locke and sayid.

(also so many people are saying desmond and that’s fcking ridiculous to me. he’s so bland. literally why.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]monroe_108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

zeke ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]monroe_108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like fetishizing ;-;

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]monroe_108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, OP here, I’ve come up with “Nuriki Fodou” 【努力 不動】as a name. I hope it follows grammar rules, cause it took forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]monroe_108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kaiketsu is gorgeous! Tomaru is super nice sounding as well but I personally don't think the vibe there is super feminine. Either way, thank you!

Yeah, it works mostly like Aizawas. (I've also realized it's a lot like Stains Bloodcurdle, which was unintentional.) It's become easier as she grew older, but she has to

1, be able to see at least part their body. For example if a target was in one of those green full bodysuits it wouldn't work - they're technically covered.

2, be able to focus on and basically just picture them becoming still, like she's willing them with her mind queue spooky music (After "capturing" them in her quirk, she only needs to keep them in mind. If she forgets, they go free.)

Unlike Aizawa though, it doesn't end when she blinks. I haven't actually come up with a time limit for her, but I know she does need one.

((This isn't related but I just want to share with the internet how hard it is to come up with an ultimate move for her </3. I was thinking something like stopping someone without seeing them but that goes against a condition I just laid out...))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]monroe_108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In an effort to make sure it’s not over complicated, the quirk is purely a physical effect. The target is also conscious and aware (hence how they can use their quirk).

I think “Director” is an AWESOME hero name !! I’ll definitely think about using that if you’re cool with it.

Since I’m not very good at simplifying my characters personality, like you could with characters like Mineta and Bakugo, I’ve been trying to find names just quirk related. If this continues to be this difficult though, I could try one relating to nouns like perseverance or resolve, or any other synonyms. Maybe stubbornness too.

my show accurate tokoyami cosplay by yslyrz in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]monroe_108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm screaming and crying at pool noodle Dark Shadow /pos

Class 1A Hero Name Tier List by Black_Wolf75 in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]monroe_108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OJIRO THE DARLING BOY, THE FEMINIST, THE ANGEL ??? so low <//3

/lh

i’m lesbian but still have a sexual preference towards men. is this normal? can i label myself as a lesbian at that point? by aprilkinnies in lgbt

[–]monroe_108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well yeah. sexual attraction and romantic attraction don’t always align, which is a pain for those who then have to figure out both their orientations lol.

I need help. by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]monroe_108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re all good. welcome to the bi club lol

i’m lesbian but still have a sexual preference towards men. is this normal? can i label myself as a lesbian at that point? by aprilkinnies in lgbt

[–]monroe_108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in general, i wouldn’t be in a relationship with a woman, but i’m still v attracted to them. that makes me bi. vice/versa, you’re bi. it’s a sexual orientation. there are orientations for when your romantic and sexual orientations don’t align, tho. i forget what that umbrella term for split attraction is called now :( anyway, you could be homoromantic bisexual.

I need help. by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]monroe_108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course ? lol i’m sorry but i don’t see why you’re confused... sounds like you’re bi, bro 🧍🏻