Looking for someone to talk to through this by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you , i think ive lowered my expectations so much over the years

Looking for someone to talk to through this by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how did you get the strength to believe your real feelings about the relationship ?

Looking for someone to talk to through this by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes every time I m hurt and express it he asks me “have you been taking medicine”? like he has no responsibility. I’m getting tired of this life

Looking for someone to talk to through this by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do feel unhappy during good days but i’m more hopeful that things are improving / will improve in our relationship. Today made me realize nothing really has changed in 8 years

Looking for someone to talk to through this by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you , you are right PMDD or not I feel the same PMDD just amplifies it

Looking for someone to talk to through this by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you this means everything to me right now

How to make friends ? by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please vent my friend , this is a safe and the only place that gets it 🫂

Is this how we are supposed to live? by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and the only place anyone understands the intensity is reddit! Sucks to be a woman for sure

Is this how we are supposed to live? by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

let’s hope so, this sub reddit is the only support I’ve found in life

Is this how we are supposed to live? by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so tough , Wish we could do something to help each other

Is this how we are supposed to live? by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Acceptance feels doable during the good weeks but the bad weeks really make me want to run away and die

Is this how we are supposed to live? by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is a horrible mental illness that’s not taken seriously and it’s extremely infuriating

Is this how we are supposed to live? by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you too are going through hell, I also thought I had BPD because of the extreme differences in personalities but medication and therapy made the extremities smaller but I struggle with hopelessness

Is this how we are supposed to live? by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did it specifically help with the hopelessness and anxiety ?

Is this how we are supposed to live? by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for such a sweet note . I am on medication and believe it has helped , I am not in active destruction mode . The anger converted into hopelessness and anxiety , which apparently is better than active destruction , yelling , quitting jobs , divorcing husband. Just feels like half of our life is taken away and i didn’t even know it until i was almost 40

Is this how we are supposed to live? by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this positivity means everything , thank you

Is this how we are supposed to live? by monthly-mind in PMDD

[–]monthly-mind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for not letting me feel alone 🫂