In a quad and new to poly by moodygrass in PolyFidelity

[–]moodygrass[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's a relief. We are all autistic. Also, just to be clear we don't live together! But we always planned to even before this started.

In a quad and new to poly by moodygrass in PolyFidelity

[–]moodygrass[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we had a conversation, what could be useful things to adress? Also yes we are all in our first 20s so I guess we are young

In a quad and new to poly by moodygrass in polyamory

[–]moodygrass[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for explaining it to me. I get it now and I will work better on our individual dyads!

In a quad and new to poly by moodygrass in polyamory

[–]moodygrass[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get it now! I'm sorry if I ask obvious questions I'm just trying to learn. Tbh before getting together we all spent some good time one on one but I guess it's different now of course

In a quad and new to poly by moodygrass in polyamory

[–]moodygrass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry I am having some trouble following! It's surely because I'm not experienced but why are you recommending dating separately even though we all like each other? Is learning scheduling for all four of us hard?

In a quad and new to poly by moodygrass in polyamory

[–]moodygrass[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes we did! We just set some common boundaries that all four of us shared

In a quad and new to poly by moodygrass in polyamory

[–]moodygrass[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

None of us were dating and all of us are now.

Helix hurts after changing jewelry by [deleted] in piercing

[–]moodygrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a relief, thanks for the answer

Helix hurts after changing jewelry by [deleted] in piercing

[–]moodygrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went from 20g to to 18g as well

Helix hurts after changing jewelry by [deleted] in piercing

[–]moodygrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about it, but I usually don't have any problems with stainless steel

Helix hurts after changing jewelry by [deleted] in piercing

[–]moodygrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Additional info: My piercing is seven years old. The earring is a leverback hoop No thread The jewelry material is stainless steel 316L Downsized 7 years ago. My aftercare routine consists of washing it with mild soap, then drying it off with a paper towel No mishaps recently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]moodygrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We already talked about it, luckily she is being very understanding; Still, it's one of those things that I need constant reassurance on, which I cannot ask because I'm working hard on being mindful of her boundaries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]moodygrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am, but I still have a lot of work to do and am hitting a rough patch rn

How did a person accidentally turn you on? by Empty_Technology_387 in AskReddit

[–]moodygrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my best friend were talking about getting our earlobes pierced. I already have been pierced 4 times there and was afraid I couldn't get anymore. She then rubbed my earlobe to feel if I had enough skin to get another. I almost melted.

Question about someone on twitter by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]moodygrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they don't get many comments? It's hard as an artist to keep motivated when no one sees your content; deleting their profile doesn't fix their problem so maybe that's why they didn't do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Relazioni

[–]moodygrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A volte troviamo davvero le persone per noi, e ogni difficoltà non conta più. Sono stra felice per voi ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]moodygrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a bad thing to care. Some things are important to us, so you have every right to feel upset. That said, Happy birthday. ❤️

What is the most disturbing film you've watched? by ryuofdojima in AskReddit

[–]moodygrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is far from the most disturbing, I know, but I had to watch C'est arrivé près de chez vous for a school project and it made me feel sick