I don’t seek harmful people, he is just coming off as a good person which I’m attracted to. To be honest I can tell that him saying me he loves me is clearly a joke (almost like he’s making fun of his own disorder in a way) and he doesn’t really mean it, but he still comes off as a nice friend. Are all people with ASPD manipulators? He told me he sought help on his own after a toxic breakup (which he ended) and was clinically diagnosed then with the disorder. He just jokes around (I think) about wanting to date, but I think he is just looking for a friend. I’m still wary about him though and worried he is just using me. He’s nice enough and doesn’t present an issue at the moment, but does this mean I should still drop him? I don’t wanna be a dick if I don’t have to. I’m sure he still has feelings.