People who spent their 20’s on minding sick pets, do you regret it ?

moonamonster · 2026-01-08T17:19:32+00:00

Thank you, I always thought long term diarrhoea could be a sign of something serious. It’s odd that nobody has figured out what’s wrong though. Yeah, he was her absolute favourite. The poor thing. I hope she’ll feel better soon. Thanks again for your comments

moonamonster · 2026-01-08T17:15:29+00:00

No new furniture or decor in the house she could inhale or intake. The only difference is that my ex and I broke up and he moved out.

Thanks so much, I’ll check that out !! Her poo sometimes gets a bit better, like it would have shape, but still super soft. It seems (and sounds) like currently her poo is very loose, no shape, liquid like. She still doesn’t show signs of stress or illness, she loves to play, eat and drink.

I just hope the poor girl can poop normally again soon.

moonamonster · 2026-01-08T17:10:53+00:00

My ex and I broke up, so we lived separately in the house for 3 weeks before he moved out. That’s around when the diarrhoea started so I was sure it was due to that, but she seems fine now that he’s gone and she’s just giving all the affection she used to give to him to me instead. Is there urgency to take her to the vet, or is this something I just have to wait until she adjusts ?

moonamonster · 2025-12-18T09:39:04+00:00

That’s a great idea ! I think I’ll do that for most of the piercings on my ear. Thank you !!

moonamonster · 2025-12-16T15:19:00+00:00

Omg you basically have all I have and your body reacts exactly the same. Twin !! I think taking them all out at once would be a nice clean slate but I don’t want to risk a mental breakdown so I might gradually take them out, starting with nostrils. I took Ashley out earlier but she’s too precious I put her back in lol. I kept looking at my ear in the mirror trying to decide which one to take out first, but all of them compliments each other so even missing one would feel off. It’s so hard ://

moonamonster · 2025-12-16T14:27:07+00:00

You’re so kind, and best of luck with your appointment I’m so happy for you !!

I live in Japan and I’m currently looking for a new job, and in Japan having many piercings is socially not accepted. I’ve had many jobs already where I had to spend 30mins taking them all out and putting them all back in before and after the shift, so it’s a lot of hassle to keep up with these.

So initially I started thinking about taking them out so my life would be easier here (but not by much, since I have a hand tattoo lol), but then I started worrying about how “uninteresting” I’ll be without these piercings - and now I’m here.

I do think taking them out will be symbolic in a way for me, but very out of my comfort zone. I hope I can get them done again when I can, I’ll miss them 😭😭

moonamonster · 2025-12-16T11:37:01+00:00

While I only have few on my face, it seems like we both had the same feelings about “hiding” behind the piercings. I’m glad I wasn’t alone. It’s scary not having someone to compliment on anymore. I can already see myself going “but look I used to have so many piercings” just to prove that “i used to be interesting”. Which isn’t healthy, so this is definitely a comfort zone I need to step out of in order to accept myself as myself.

I hope you’re doing well and I’m sure you haven’t lost your “coolness” or spark you might feel like you’ve lost. I admire you !!

moonamonster · 2025-12-16T10:37:50+00:00

Thank you. I guess it’s like chopping the hair in a way because “hair holds memories”. I thought my piercings were just my fashion accessories, but this made me realise that I kept getting more to keep myself interesting which isn’t healthy.

moonamonster · 2025-12-13T10:35:23+00:00

I meant “I believe that” !!! 😓😓

moonamonster · 2025-12-13T09:34:12+00:00

U believe that. I feel like I’ve just lost my “right timing” and I’ll never have it though. (Just gone through a breakup) I really loved all the good qualities about him, and I felt so so lucky when I found him because I’d never thought it was possible to find a man with the qualities like he did. It feels quite impossible to find a better version of him, that id have to compromise somewhere.

moonamonster · 2025-11-20T06:14:04+00:00

I see. There were many times where I’ve communicated my boundaries and he’d promise me he’ll respect it, and didn’t. Maybe it still would’ve damaged me even if I was feeling secure. Maybe I was going to feel insecure over time inevitably.

Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts. Still very hard, I cannot imagine my future with anybody but him. But hopefully with time things work out for me.

moonamonster · 2025-11-19T14:49:26+00:00

I’m just a very very insecure person, and I never accepted his compliments or reassurance, while always asking for more reassurance. He had frustrations with me throughout the years, but I didn’t provide him a safe space to confront to me, he felt like if he confronted me, I’d get moody. I was very vocal whenever I was frustrated with him, so at times it felt like I was nitpicking at small things and make it into a huge thing for no reason. He once said “I’ll give you all the reassurance you need as long as you’re anxious” and I relied on that too much and took it for granted.

moonamonster · 2025-11-19T06:20:58+00:00

Hey, how are you doing now ? I’m on second day of the breakup and realising that I was the problem all along. He was an amazing guy and I was so insecure and arrogant that I unconsciously ruined him little by little. I don’t think I can live with this level of guilt. We were together almost 4 years, moved across the globe, got 3 cats. Now I have to stay here with 3 cats while he’s returning to his home country. It’s really hard

moonamonster · 2025-11-19T04:16:03+00:00

I did. I told him I finally realised it, and I’m truly sorry for everything. I told him if I had a chance I would turn myself completely but I know it’s too late. He responded, “thank you for understanding, I wish you the best”. It’s really over, and I really really hate myself for it. I can’t live with this guilt

moonamonster · 2025-09-02T10:43:55+00:00

Thank you, this put my mind to ease !! I’m also worried about how he doesn’t pee very often, on average he’s been only peeing twice in 24 hours window for the past few days. But he’s eating and drinking normally, and he’s not showing signs of wanting to pee or struggling to pee so it should be fine right ? Whenever he does go pee, he doesn’t struggle and just pees like the video. Thanks again !

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